whenever i go to frat parties i alwayas end up makin out with a couple girls, but never get any farther
admittedly i havent been using pua techniques, jus makin sure i have an alpha mindset
i ususaully ask if they want to dance, dance witht them, and if i get good feedback while dancing i go in for the kiss

jw if yall could give me any tips on how to be a better kisser i guess

ive found that using the PUA techniques to build comfort, rapport + emotional connect before/after you start making out with them will mean you have a much greater chance at going further.
So, even if they want to kiss you within the first 5 min, if you stop them, and try to build some more comfort and connection, and then kiss later, you may go further.

I second this, and also recommend experimenting... The more you LIKE kissing, the better you'll get.. suck her lips, suck her tongue, kiss her neck, don't just jab your tongue down her throat.. and kissing is one place where you HAVE to calibrate.. you dont wanna kiss any faster or slower than she is.

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It could be many things dude. You could be a bad kisser, or you could just be bad at gaming girls after the kiss, or "mid game" as some might call it.
What I've noticed tends to happen is that guys do well until the kiss or number, then they think the game's been won and they sit back and their behaviour really changes. Now you're suddenly not the same guy who she was attracted to.
Work on building comfort and maintaining attraction. Tease them, flirt with them, open up a little bit (note - I don't mean talk about your issues, there's nothing worse than sharing a sob story to someone who doesnt give a fuck). Get to know the girl and let her feel that she has worked to get you - get her invested in you.

As for PUA techniques, we're all on this forum for a reason - to better ourselves. Make use of the resources at your disposal.

ill def try to use pua techniques next time
but also i think im a bad kisser so do yall have any tips/tricks to make me a better one?

biting ur lower lip and pulling her towards u with it is an excellent technique. but don't bite too hard obviously...

massage her tongue with yours when she puts it in your mouth

dont be afraid to explore. kiss more than her mouth, go for her neck, ears. and odd case i had, my ex was extremely turned on when i kissed the tip of her nose. she would laugh about it and call me out but you could tell it drove her crazy

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hey man!
if you're not confident about your kissing i think the best approach would be to follow the girls lead to start out with. if you kiss in the same way as her then she's not gonna have any complaints. so if you start out doing this until you're more confident to experiment.


Regards

Lucky

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thanks yall i really appreciate it!
and what do u mean by massage her tonue?
srry even tho im a fresh. in college my first kiss was only abt a moth and a half ago but since then i ve made out wit like 15ish girls but ive been pullin em based on my good looks (excuse the arrogance) not gamin em

like feel for her tongue man...don't just stick it in her mouth and have at it lol. feel for her's and get it moving in the same rythm...let her lead until you're comfortable!

Regards

Lucky

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First off frat parties are gay.

Making out on the dance floor can work, but you're probably going in too fast and she doesn't feel totally comfortable. If you get this far, rather then kiss, grab her hand and take her outside, somewhere more private and then kick it to her.

As for technique. I think passion is the only thing that matters. Don't think too much about it. Just do what feels great and she will take notice.

What guy likes kissing that much anyway? Be a man.