met this girl on myspace, asked her out she tells me she'd love to but is sorta seeing someone, we dont talk much after this

week or so later she comments my new pict saying "you're really cute, fyi" and then IM's me and we talk for awhile

I ask her out on Saturday she says she has no money I was like I'll pay no biggie, shes like "oh does this qualify as the date you asked me out on?"

we go to the movies but it's sold out so we hang out at her house and watch a movie and talk, things go well we get along good.. her roomate wants to go to the bar, but I gotta work in the morning so say I cant go since its already 1am, she acts sad and keeps asking you sure?

I leave a comment on one of her facebook status about her new halloween decorations, she says "you need to come check em out, meaning we need to hang out again soon" I bring up me coming over tonight to watch movies since she says shes sitting on her ass bored and its a rainy night..she says "idk what I'm in the mood for I'm just quit smoking and kinda irritable and bitchy right now"

anyways she likes this older guy hes 24 shes 20 hes a pro dirtbike rider and hes off down south right now for dirtbiking, he'll be home in 4 days they kissed and stuff but there not exclusive or anything...what should I do to win her over?

we have a lot in common and shes literally the exact girl I've been looking for

Hey man..

I feel what your saying...

A good friend of mine (womenizer) was gaming a girl he liked. She ended up getting a new boyfriend, so he asked what to do and of course I told him to KEEP HIS COOL.
I know it might hurt a bit, but you gotta let her go for awhile, let her know that your busy, literally let her know. It will come to a point where your coolness of the whole situation showing you dont care will surface.

sorry but I tried ..