Hey everyone,

Just joined the forums and was hoping to get some advice/guidance.

So, I recently ran into someone who I worked with in the past but never had the balls to ask her out at the time. I'm still not up to par on my techniques. But I won't get into that.

Anyway, I finally built enough confidence to ask her to hang out and she said yes. I got her number/email so I can contact her as well. First off, do you think asking her to hang out was a good idea? or should I have asked for a date?

We are going out next week and I just want to have a good time with her because
the truth is I really like her. Not just looking for a one night stand. She's a nice person and not stuckup like HB's I've talked to in the past. Problem is I tend to get nervous/flustered and I just want her to be comfortable with me. I'm thinkin about telling her how I feel. Would that be bad when hanging out and not actually on a date? If it works out it works out. If not then I'll just move on.

Thanks for any feedback guys!

Hey crispywhip,

First of all it’s up to you if you are gonna turn it into a date or not. It doesn’t really matter how you call it anyway. The first step has been made and the girl’s obviously responded positively. So from now on you need to work on your inner game in order to project positive energy and make the ‘hang out/date’ fun for both of you. If you are having fun then the girl would feel that and will join you.
To make it easier for yourself, choose a location where you feel comfortable and relaxed. You should go there with the thought that she is already into you (because that’s actually the case, she has already said YES). Don’t overanalyze, just have fun.
If I were you I wouldn’t go directly telling her how I feel. Maybe it’s a bit too early for that and you might scare her off. Instead, just make her realize you like her. Build comfort throughout the conversation. Showing her your interest isn’t necessarily a verbal action, your body language will do the job. Girls are generally more aware of the body language. So just kino. If she responds well to it you might as well go for a k-close. Just don’t wait too long, because most of the time, delaying leads to the friendszone.

Best luck
Jez

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Thanks for the feedback! Thats one of my biggest concerns is the "Friendzone"!

Good job actually getting the courage to ask her to hang out and you better K-close her or its game over take a lesson from van wilder


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Is it easy to get out of a friend zone if u improve ure inner game at a latter stage and increase kino etc?