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can you give more detail on how you showed dominance, social proof, jealously plotline, everything else. Something that can be helpful to others.
You know that is an interesting question...
The key point is, CAN I tell you what I did? Not really... I can try though.
Since I got my inner game down all I really have to do to show dominance is to be myself. I am not trying to tell you all to be yourselves because that just wont work. I cannot tell you to be me either even though that would probably work better.
Just kidding.
I can give you the general feeling I have when I am out in a public place. This is what shows when I sarge. This shows even when I am not sarging and thats the secret. Many people try to adopt the attitude and fake it but it really is not enough just to do that. You have to compensate with a lot of other stuff as well.
Until you have changed enough to actually believe it.
I go into a bar and regardless if I know anyone or not I feel at home. The people in the bar work there to make me feel good, its their job per definition. The other guests are there as supporting characters, not really important.
Whenever I meet someone in a bar I act as if I have known him or her for a long time, at least for a week. That is, if he or she seems like a nice person I will be a buddy, joke, have fun, skipping the whole stranger phase. If I instantly feel that he or she is a loser I will treat him or her like one. Not worth paying attention to. Ok I admit that I judge people and it is a bit unfair but I am pretty good at cold reading so its ok. Saves time and that is EXACTLY what girls do and that is why they appear superior.
If I know people at the bar they are apparently people I like so I treat them like they are my buddies (which they are). I take up a lot of space and reframe everything so that it is on my terms, not making anyone feel bad or so, not excluding anyone or fighting for dominance. It is just the natural order of things, before I entered the room everyone were probably having a good time too but now that I am here I present another better alternative, talking to me, that is where the shit happens, thats where the fun is.
Control the frame and you play the audience like ... well... an audience.
I sit down at a table and I feel that I am really the most attractive guy in the room, no doubt about it. I am. The best choice for anyone is to align themselves with me. None of the other guys can compete with me, because I have already won. Sure I can appreciate other peoples skills and looks etc etc but the time has passed when I looked upon anyone else in awe. So this is what everybody else would also write. You got to be the best one in the bar, you got to tell yourself that you are the most attractive guy. The big difference is that I ACTUALLY BELIEVE IT!
Thats the secret. I may be wrong in other peoples eyes but only I can know my own worth and when it comes to attractiveness I only listen to one person, myself. So per definition, I am the most attractive guy. And guess what, when you believe something strong enough others will too.
Social proof, I surround myself with people who I call friends. People who I have selected from numerous of potential friends because I like them. They are my choice and they are as happy to be my friends as I am to be their friend. That makes the relation awesome! That shows, both parts are grateful that they met. Social proof! From awesome people. And there will be some people wishing they knew that guy who does all those cool things better and that is good too.
Girls, friends or exes will sometimes be there too. Since I always play around with sexual tension it is not always obvious what relationship I have to the girls, am I an ex lover, a friend, a boyfriend or just an annoying guy they just met? But people sense the tension and that creates preselection. If there is a nice looking girl it can create jealousy as well...
So I reealize that this was a long post and it was a bit different from the "routine filled" posts people say. Sure I could tell you what routines I used only I didnt use any.
This is a post about going from the part where you tell yourself that you are awesome and going to the part where you actually believe it!
Ezo
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