Well man, first thing you can do is to admit that you like the chick. The second thing you do is, follow your feeling that comes up. For us guys the first feeling that comes up is grief. So you will feel a sense of sorrow and almoust self pitty when you admit yourself that you are insecure. At that point, just follow your feeling and allow yourself to feel grief deeply. Dont stop it, dont try to make logical decisions, dont try to make yourself feel better.. just feel. And once you do, you will feel a deep connection with yourself that you never had before. From that, you can work your way up.
If you dont reach the bottom, you will never reach the top. So reach your bottom feeling. Follow it down.
You made the first step, you admited that you are a bitch, so to speak. Now when you did that, you can start making some progress. All you can do right now, is commit yourself to becoming a full man. And becoming a real man is a process. You cant just wake up one day and say.. Im a man.. and here come the bitches
( from david d. on being a man joke )
So, maybe you can start with making a clear picture of what kind of a man you want to be. Start looking for other men arround you, and notice their qualities. And than slowly, assemble your own personality.
At some point, you will have to face your fears, and that will be the time that you will really make some huge progress. You will literary transform yourself.
And than, when you get connected with that deep sense of self, that strong route that no one can shake, than you will become incredibly attractive to women and the rest of the world.
So stick with it. Quick advice: When you notice that you are starting to wuss out, STOP.
So let us all know how you do in the future. And remember, Be a fuckin man.
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