Ok guys im in need of some help...

so im friends with this HB10 and HB8

the target is the HB10 of course....

So here is the story...we've been friends for about a year now and she was friends with my ex but they don't really talk any more. Every weekend the BH10 and 8 want to ride around with me just hanging out and stuff. iv invited the HB10 to to do stuff like concerts and dinner ect. but she always has an excuse not to go. and when we text she just randomly stops. but I'm also the first guy on her top friends on myspace so that's gotta be a good sign right? Iv also got that older guy thing going for me. any tips guys plz and thanks

You should stop inviting her to things until she is attracted to you. That's all I can really say.

What I hear is this:

I AM A WUSS BAG. I will do anything to get the approval from women because I am needy and clingy. I am also insecure and manipulative scared little bitch.

I would get those issues handled first. Even if you "succed" and get this girl, you will be probably dumped and broken. What your needy ass probably deserves. So you get a lesson, that it is stupid to think of this ONE girl that you gotta have.

Dont take my feedback too harshly, or personally. Take it and do something about it.

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Man you are in bad shape offering to wine and dine her, being her own personal chauffeur. I wonder do you lay your jacket down over puddles for her so she can walk on it too? Ask yourself what are you hoping to get in return from her in exchange for you being so nice to her?(hoping to have sex with her) Then ask yourself if she shows up with a boyfriend tomorrow how your going to react to that news (your going to pissed and feel used).

Save yourself from a life volunteer slavery and verbally tell this girl you like her as more than just friends. She's going to probably decline your offer since your so deep in comfort I'm not gonna lie to you. But from her past rejections to go out to dinner and hang out you already know this is game over.

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Hey man I kind of understand how it feels. I was in a deep friend zone relationship with these HB9-10s and we used to hang out a lot too. I was extremely attracted to one of them, but I knew they didn't feel the same way about me. And no matter how close I thought we were, and how much I did for her over the years she still ended up dating someone else. And that made me realize how pointless and stupid I was for being so good to her, and I felt like a bitch for wasting so much time. She probably just used me for weed anyway.

The other guy just scooped her out of no where and I'm absolutely sure he didn't do half as many things for her as I did.

Anyway, there are wayy too many hot girls out there for you to concentrate so much on one. You should keep those HB10s as friends because having hot girls around helps your game, imo. Try to use them like they use you. But don't have your hopes up about dating them, I say just keep the relationship going (but don't be her bitch!) and maybe one day you will randomly hook up with her or convince her to give you a goodbye sex if you ever move.

But if you're really serious about her, I would tell her your true feelings about her soon if I were you. But don't put her on the spot, say it casually and don't expect anything form her after you say it. She might be surprised (or not) but she's obviously not gonna say the same thing about you, probably gonna say something like "I like you too much as a friend". You should also hang out with her less after you say it, make her miss you! And who knows, if she knows about your feelings for her and she somehow gets attached to you she might end up liking you back.

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It sounds too much like ljbf.

I would instead turn it on its head, use them, go out as friends to a club or whatever and you are:
pre-selected by women (who are hot).

other women will want to know you simply because you are with others, its a sort of jealousy plotline with also a good social circle to have.

Now you are out and other women see you with them it means your approaches will be easier which then will make your friends think you are also pre-selected by women.

In other words, go out with them and enjoy other womens company which will hit attraction/jealousy switches in your friends.

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Actually don't go for them!

There are plenty of girls out there, but having an HB10 and HB8 as "just friends" due to your previous history but presumably being different now is a good thing!

IOW use them as wing ladies! Use them to pick up other girls. They may even become jealous. Otherwise, the only other idea I would have for you is to leave for a long long time and come back different.

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