"Look at me. I'm thinking, You're mine. I fuckin' own you. What I'm not doing is feeling anything about it one way or the other. You understand? You're not a person to me, you're a name in my collection book, a guy owes me money, that's all."

- Chili Palmer

You want a movie with the most confident mother fucker you've ever seen in you're god damned fucking life? Watch Get Shorty. Mirror Travolta and I don't see how you won't have women crawling behind you. There's a part in the movie with the above quote, where Travolta is trying to show Danny DaVito how to act like a shylock. Watch that part. Of course he is talking about people who owe him money... but I swear on my life, feel that indifference to a woman and you will feel untouchable and simply sweat confidence. He's also not looking at them like he's mad or like he's pissed. He's just looking at them with THAT look... I wish I could find a screencap.

Since I couldn't.. here are the only pics I could find of two confident guys. What I want you to take notice is their eyes. There is the most subtle squint that you can barely see, and when you do it, barely feel. IN FACT, it's not EVEN a squint.. It's as if only your upper eyelid ever so slightly closes. And then there is the, again, almost unnoticeable smirk. That's confidence baby. Fake it till you make it!

they look kinda gay aye hahaha

nah nah, its cool, i get what you mean

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i really get what you mean. Confidence can be faked you just have to radiate it and after a while you won't have tp fake it anymore because you will be confident and the sky will be the limit.

The thing is, I call it faking.

What it really is, is actual confidence.

Confidence isn't really an act, it is a state of mind. Anyone, I don't care who you are, can "act" confident, and when you are "acting" confident, you are confident. It's very hard to explain, only really possible to see and feel.


If you want to do an exercise. Go to the mirror and look at yourself. Pull your chest up slightly, your shoulders back even less so, and make the smallest smile you can. Just barely a smirk, and almost unnoticeable.

Now, instead of THINKING that you are "the man", "I can get anyone," etc, just act that mind state. Don't say things to yourself. Don't think anything. Just feel a confidence surge come over you. It's just like moving your leg. You don't think about it, you jut DO it. This is the same as confidence. Just DO it. Just BE it. Don't try and think it.

I do this before every room I enter where there are going to be people, just to make sure I am in that state; and when I am, I feel absolutely unstoppable.

OrangeTiger: HAHAHAAHA

Daniel Craig as James Bond all the way lol

standing up straight is important, but best way is not to practice exercises in the mirror. Best way is to simply do pushups maybe once a week for 2 or 3 weeks (that is 2 or 3 times in total). This will strengthen your back, especially lower back and you will feel taller all of sudden and notice that you are standing up straight.

do this and you will also feel more confident when you walk around

Of course this doesn't help for guys who are already in shape and exercising, but they should be standing up straight already.