I pulled off an amazing close on a wonderful girl last night with a combination of game and luck. I was in a crowded club with my wing. No opener was necessary because I just turned around and i was face to face with this gorgeous Swedish-American girl. It is possible she opened with positioning and body language. Maybe she was drawn to my body language and compatible Nordic features, but we were talking in a triangle immediately. My wing talked engagingly but beta-nervously while I laid back and used posture and light kino to establish myself. I threw in a few lines teasing her about her blonde braids in a silly Swedish/German accent. She excitely told me her background and I dropped the accent and told her I was Scandi-American too. Then I negged her about getting a spanking if she didn't put her hair up like that way when she was little. I let my wing warm her up with manic, desperate yet interesting talking and cooly adjusted my position/kino when her body language showed that she liked me more. My two other friends swarmed around and reminded me it was my next round while bolstering my alphaness. I ignored them for a bit, but did finally get a round and did buy her a ketel soda with our beers nonchalantly, negging her on getting a Dutch vodka. I complimented how ridiculously blue her eyes were and then used the Mystery eye crusty neg. She boasted about her eyesight and then told her that I could read smaller writing on the bottles than she could, even without my glasses. I took off my glasses and read all the bottles and she couldn't top me. She asked me to try on my glasses, only to find out that they were fake (non-prescription)! I told her that I used those glasses to weed out the girls with no sense of humor, but she was doing so well. I hurt her feelings with this overneg and she left and went to the bathroom. After one minute my wing actually thought she had lost interest and chased after my target. I waited three more minutes and went to get her. I apologized for coming off as being too arrogant and she said that she knew my friends were putting me up to it and they didn't have the confidence that I had. I made quick friends with her friend who was in the bathroom line. At some point my friend tried to hit on her again but she left the bar with her friends. I waited a few seconds and briskly walked out, temporarilly ditching my friends, and catching her on the street. She was excited and we held hands. Number close and immediate call with a simulated "I just met a girl" routine. She insisted that I must be gay, perhaps because I was so comfy negging her. I took this as an invite for more kino and touched her arms, waist, and hips like they were my property, grinded her dancing and did a natural funny wave dance. I made friends and remembered the names of her HB8 friend, her two chubby friends, and her feckless guy friend. My friends kept calling me and I told her I had to get back to them soon. I told her we should meet for ice cream next week. She still thought I might be gay, and went as far as saying "could you really fuck me?" I coolly said "for hours." It was her friend's birthday party and her friend took her purse and would not let me extract her or get an F-close. I asked if she would like to kiss me and I can't remember exactly what she said, but it was a "maybe" type answer. We kissed, but she was nervous and partially missed my mouth. I said that I didn't want that to count for our first kiss, and we went outside and did a perfect short kiss. I left and rejoined my friends. I texted her a few hours later about our ice cream date. She asked again if I was straight and I texted back, "yes, let's prove it." I left her a voicemail tonight and am looking forward to an exciting day two. This was definitely a situation where my specialty of negging came into play because she really wasn't used to it and put her in a situation where she was really into me but I seemingly wasn't into her. Seemingly, the only times this had ever happened to her had been when she was with gay guys. I used this to my advantage. I did have trouble phase-shifting, but such a promising physical experience can be so much better than during a drunken Saturday night pickup. Any tips on how I can seal the deal next week?

sounds like you did well. i think her "are you gay" comments might be her own little neg so dont let her fool you with that. the only thing i can recommend is you never DHV to her. forunately, your friends did that for you (thank god for afc's). just remember to let her know that your the most important person in your interactions. I wouldn't recommend buying her ice cream as you bought her drink, but i think that if you can do it and still keep her respect you should make your own call.

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Thanks for the tips. I just hope that communication works out well on the phone. It always is possible that something will go wrong with the message I left, even though I thought it was solid. Any surefire technique not to blow the first call/message?

I bought her a drink along with the round of four for my friends with only minimal DLV. My turn to buy a round for my friends was overdue, so it was either to exclude or include her. I had basically only negged, so I could have seemed too selfish otherwise. She bought me a drink without a second thought when we got to the next place, so I think it was ok. If I pay for the ice cream, I'll definitely tell her that she's got the next round.

Oh, okay, The only way to keep from blowing the first call/VM? Keep it short, speak clearly, and don't repeat yourself. Lemme know how shit works out.

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Im from Sweden...tell me if you want to suprise her with some swedish spoken game

Ps...every swedish girls is a 9/10 comon hahaha :0

thanks, dude... she looks as good as bibi anderson in 1965... but yeah, swedes are disproportionately 9/10s. I don't think her swedish was too good because she seemed confused when I said 'Beryman' instead of 'Bergman', Bory/Borg, etc. Isn't that how the pronunciation goes? Maybe give me one clever thing to say that is provocative and I can neg/teach her it if she has never heard it. no callback after 24 hours though. Maybe she is downplaying her interest because she fell for my game a little too easy...

The translation from Swedish to English never works too well because the sounds you make are often times just too different. Ive been sitting here for a few minutes trying to write out bergman as you would say it in swedish but i cant get it right lol.

As for something you can say in Swedish...hmmm...(maybe just text it or something if u cant figure out how to say it)

Du har tur du hittade en man som jag
(you are lucky you found a man like me)
not too long or hard to say, maybe use as a neg

Norska tjejor är snyggare än dom svenska i vilket fall som helst
(norwegian girls are hotter than the swedish ones anyway) Use a regular a for the ä)
Swedish and norwegians always shit on each other for everything kinda like polish jokes so this might be a funny neg if she knows her stuff.

Ill think of some more tomorrow its late im tired good luck bro

Right on! I'll look for a chance to use those. I would not be surprised if she only speaks a negligible amount of Swedish. I will have to save these for a bit later so I don't weird her out with an incomprehensible text... but it could be funny for later. That's hilarious that you taught me a Norway over Sweden neg. I'm actually a quarter of each, and have heard these jokes go back and forth. The Norwegians usually seem to go farther with this, perhaps because they have the smaller country.
If this girl understands the language, no mercy with the Swedish negs!

Haha alright...just keep me updated. Yea norway is always a step behind in just about everything except maybe skiing and oil production so they are bitter lol Good luck has she called yet by the way?

Looked like the Swede blurred out. Maybe she was bit uneasy about my overnegging and my indifference to sealing the deal that night. After a call and a text went unreturned, I lost interest. Now she's relegated to the back burner. I met three more girls this week, taking one home, and had a good day 2 with a 9 today, so she's not in my fave five right now. Thanks for the feedback guys- it was a fun sarge and I learned much. And don't worry, I'll get a chance to use those Swedish negs!

Too bad...ohh well...good luck with the other girls and let me know if u find another swede!