i did not know it at the time she asked me but my gf(officially my gf at the time of three weeks, known her for a long time then discovered pick up)and her best friend(kim) read some book that told them to ask their bf some questions and what our answers to them meant. the first and only question she got to ask me was while im in bed with her and almost asleep.

her: what do you like about me?

me:what?

(and she changes the question here)
her:just answer it, why do you like me?

me:this sounds like a loaded question, what are you really trying to ask me?

her:(now with a pissy tone in her voice)just answer!

me:babe you don't have to be insecure with me, i like you.

her:im not, i jsut want to here you say it!

me:if you don't know that i like you by now i don't know what im doing here, you and i both get a lot attention from the opposite sex everyone wants to be with you or me but we are together.

she shuts up and i can now get some sleep...

fast forward about three months... now my girls' friend(kim) has a bf and we just went on a dubble date to a costume party, its 3am on our way home and we have the drunk munchies so we go and get some drive-thru junk food, we park to eat, kim(the best friend) and her bf are doing lovie-dovie talk in the front seat of her suv im in the back with my girl and she goes hey kim ask him the questions!

i ask my gf "what questions?" and she whispers to me about the book.

so kim asks her bf why do you like me, he goes "thats easy" and starts listing off physical stuff, "i like your smile... blah blah blah.." and kim gets pissy "no! more spacific!" and her bf get a look on his face like wtf did i do wrong, so he starts listing off the way she makes him feel "you make me smile... blah..blah..blah..."
kim gets mad and tells him to shut up and that he is doing it all wrong.

they finish eating, kim mad, her bf confused and they drive home bearly saying a word while my gf is making out with me, stoking me and telling me that she wants me so bad when we get home. lol

have any of you heard of this shit my girl said its a book written by a man on questions to ask your bf and what it means by how they answer, she wont tell me by who... she does not want me to read it.

i did not pass or fail, i just didnt answer the questions, she has not brought it up or asked me any questions that seem fishy or like a trick since then.

what do you think? i cant say i passed, i did not answer her questions, cant say i failed, she is happy as can be with me.

any advice on what i could do better next time something like that happens?

How does it feel to be gamed lol.

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can you help me out here with pointing out what i did wrong and what i should have done?

lol thats why I never tell my GFs about PUA they feel like they were gamed, my girl used to read relationship books and try to game me but I'm smarter than that

Don't understand the problem.


You clearly stated you destroyed the question by not answering it, and Kim's bf hopelessly failed by answering it.

When a girl asks you what you like about her... she's not really looking for an answer like her hair or her smile. You said the exact right thing.
I remember this girl onced asked me what I like about her. I simply said, don't fish for compliments. She said, "I know.. I'm sorry, I do that sometimes." Done and done.


What's with people posting questions that arent questions or problems?!?!?!

I'm glad he posted this, for other peoples learning purposes, its nice to see 2 people next to each other one failing and one actually doing the right thing.

its like seeing a finger painting next to the mona lisa