I went to a club the other night. It was storming and the clubs attendance reflected peoples unwillingness to drive through the blinding rain. Almost everyone that came was with their partner and I wasn't particularly looking to talk to them. As I was sitting in the VIP section later that night, a 2 set opened me. The ugly one wanted my friend and the tall, model looking one wanted me. Now I started doing my normal thing then stopped because I approached a moral dilemma: I was a designated driver and she was completely wasted. I decided not to pursue her because of this fact, and she actually kept trying harder and harder since I assume being VIP and not being interested DHV's you. Do you feel that would have been taking advantage of the girl?[/code]

If you weren't drunk,and she was,it would be taking advantage.

Props to you for doing the respectful thing.Sometimes,it is wiser to look up to chivalry rather than selfish desire.

Good man.

Remind her of it another day. If she remembers the night then she will remember what she did and will remember you. And what you did (And more importantly... didn't do)

EvoJ

Yeah i agree with everyone else. you nailed the phrase "be a man, do the right thing"

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