the girl gave a lot of indications she was ready for sex. We only messed around, and I didn't initiate sex.

do girls think you're a pussy for not sealing the deal. and loose interest because you 'must not know what you're doing to capitalize on the situation'.

or is it still possible to continue gaming in the future

I don't want her to feel inadequate because I didn't f**k her. I just wanted to hold off so we could build a relationship. Now I won't see her for at least 2 months. Is it blown? or what?

You might have blown it who knows whaat she expected. Maybe she just wanted a wild night and left dissapointed.

I was in a similar situation one time in my AFC days (not implying that they are all behind me ;)). Anyhow, I honestfully told her: "I want to get to know you first. You seem special and woudn't want to pass that up".

Worked like a charm. If you want a relationship with her, best route might just be honnesty and setting the proper expectations.

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I mean if she was in a state of seduction i.e she was giving off all the signs *I want to be sexed* I think you may have blown it.

It's almost like an extension of the old rule, a girl is just looking for a confident alpha male. If you talk the talk but don't walk the walk, she will lose interest very quickly and discount you.

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in my experience yes girls will not take you seriously if you dont close them...but there are a lot of differetn factors here. You are far from out of the game. also how you went about not intiateing sex is huge. If you are alpha and have high value about the situation you should have no problems

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She might get some dyck for another dude to satisfy her urges temporarily but you are still in the game for sure. If anything, you might make her fall for you by playing it cool this one time.

I wouldn't turn down sex again though. Women find this charming the first time but after that, you are in the Friends Zone for good. I would recommend hollering at some other females and seeing if you can find a pivot before the next time you see her. That will give you the DHV to lock this chick down!!!!!! You already set it up, now close the deal right and that chick will be eating out of the palm of your hand.

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I ran into that situation about 8 mos ago. This chick from online came over, she told me that she didn't want to have sex. So i took her word for it. We started making out and then at the end of the night, she told me, "You're nice guy but I've been going out with assholes my whole entire life." blah blah blah.

However, looks like she was looking for a fling. She's not the type of girl for you I think because when she get's bored having sex with you, she'll go to some other guy. She's more liable to cheat.

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The way I turned her down was by 'respecting her tolken LMR'. She was really surprised that I stopped. she tried to get me to f**k her again. even as she was leaving, she said, ' okay, this is me leaving' and walked two steps and stopped to wait for me to come and get her. I did get her, but didn't initiate the sex, just more making out and sexual petting....

I think the problem was that I escalated it too far without closing. It got down to no clothing and serious grindage and kissing and I didn't pull the trigger. I didn't tell her why (I thought it was AFC to tell her that I really liked her and wanted a relationship), which really killed it i think

Well damn if you did all that you might as well of f-closed. I think you may have blown it unless you come solid with her and tell her why you didnt have sex otherwise shes just gonna think your a pansy or w/e else she wants to think of you. When she comes back from wherever shes going for 2 months try again.

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