Hey guys.. I was at the gym, and I saw a gorgeous HB10 always making eye contact with me and smiling. This woman was straight up beautiful. Dark hair, green eyes, perfect body, sexy accent. The first time I saw her wth her trainer, I smiled at her and waved. Fortunately, she waved back. This was a major move for me, as I made the first move. Even thoug I couldn't approach her during her training session, I still let her know that i was confident enough to acknowledge her. After her training session she went on the treadmill. I went up to her, smiled (she smiled back again) went on the treadmill next to her and just started talking. I went for a direct approach, since she was already giving me signals. LIke where you from, what do u do. blah blah blah.. used hand gestures and facial expressions and stuff..

WHAT I did wrong:

I am 24, and she is 32. Unfortuntaely, I am not used to older women, and i am actually intimidated by them for some reason, let alone her being really pretty. SO i was able to have a smooth friendly conversation, but i really failed in planning a second meeting. I have this feeling that older womem that are pretty only like hooking up with extremely rich men, and that she'd reject me. This is what made me sort of uneasy about asking her for her number. I know she goes to the gym everyday at 4pm (around the same time i do).... how do i go about planning a second meeting. I already built comfort, and i know that i'll have to talk to her next time i see her..

You seem like on a one way ticket to let's-just-be-friends-ville. You build confort with no attraction being generated. Am I correct? Did you tease her or just ravell in her beauty? Did you let it show in your bl that she was the prize?

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your right.. i was too ravelled by her beauty.. i didn't really make her think she was the prize that much though in my body language.. as i made working out on the treadmill and watching the lil "treadmill tv" my "1st priority" . i instigated the convo with some over the shoulder comments when i was cooling down.

I know that the second time i talk to her i need to build attraction but i dont know how.. i really dont have any ideas on what i could tease her about. I am actually a very funny guy who always has funny shit to say, but no funny teases were thought of. i know it would def have an effect because older women that are HB10s are probably used to guys just throwing money at her and qualifying themselves. Maybe i should drink or something before working out..lol

I've heard that one before on one of David DeAngelo's dvd series. He actually stole it from a friend of his that was a trainer I believe.

When she walks off, or gets off the training. Look at her and say (confidently): What, you are not done yet! You need more workout!

Be 100% sure that no guy has ever said anythinkg like that to her.

You can tease her in a million ways if you are already making convo. That will build some attaction. Do you have trouble teasing in general or just with her?

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Wet your beak in the stream
Game we're playing is life
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i dont have trouble teasing.. but what i do have trouble doing is building attraction with someone older than me.. however, i'm sure if i conquer this challenge, it will no longer be an issue in the future. .. i am good with teases,... what i have a major problem with, is making the convo sexual, AT A GYM!!!.. i