Ok so yesterday I went in a club, opened in a three set and they invited me to dance with them, everything was going perfectly. But then I just didn't know what to say to girls in a club that are total strangers and where the conversation is very limited because we don't hear each other... I asked about their studies in a desperate try and it didn't lead anywhere... After about 15 minutes they went to the washrooms ( I knew I had failed) and met them again later but I didn't went to see them again, not knowing what to say to girls who flushed you! I know I could of danced with them but I didn't know how to approach total strangers physically to dance with them... Any help? Thanks

personally, i do not approach strangers and dance with them right off the bat, when im in a club, i dance by myself (still in teh crown obviously) but just enjoying myself and the environment, keeping in mind my energy level (as to not bring down the ppl around me) . by dancing alone and still apear to be having more fun than nearly everyone else, you convey higher value and alpha male characteristics (you can stand on your own, you are fun and energy appropriate, et c.) I have found that in doing this, 8s, 9s and even some bold 10s will come up to ME and start grinding/dancing. - that is my stance on dancing with girls without first talking to them.

when it comes to "i opened the girls by the bar and then they asked me to dance..." i would prolly dance with them, but first id throw up a hoop, like "i dont know... i might make you look bad" (not completely serious of course) or somthing along those lines. then i would have them walk with me to the dance floor and proceed dancing.

other things :
while dancing, there is NO need to talk, so you dont need to worry about vocal communication (talking), but focus all of your energy toward physical communication (body language, flowing movements, posture, et c.)
notice how i said "have them walk with me", this is completely different than walking with them. know the difference! in the former, you are in front and not facing them, maybe holding hands with one or two of them, maybe arm in arm with one or two of them, but it is clear you are the leader. in the former, youre physical communicaiton shows ur a wimp.

hope this helps!

happy gaming!

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agrea with the first response it seems to show all of the right messages with a girl also eye contact is a good indicator if she wants to dance with you.

I try to look for eye contact from a girl on the dancefloor then give her a little smile and if she smiles back just put my hand out and go from there. Works pretty well.

Just say you want to go dance and that they should come with you. If they don't go dance anyway and have a good time. I usually just dance on my own and if eye contact happens I dance with girls. Other times if a song I like comes up or I just feel like dancing I just say that and grabs hands and head to the floor. If you wanna dance take them to dance.

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thanks guys I'll try these tips and we'll see! It makes more sense than my method anyway !:P

"personally, i do not approach strangers and dance with them right off the bat, when im in a club, i dance by myself (still in teh crown obviously) but just enjoying myself and the environment, keeping in mind my energy level (as to not bring down the ppl around me) . by dancing alone and still apear to be having more fun than nearly everyone else, you convey higher value and alpha male characteristics (you can stand on your own, you are fun and energy appropriate, et c.) I have found that in doing this, 8s, 9s and even some bold 10s will come up to ME and start grinding/dancing. - that is my stance on dancing with girls without first talking to them."

Ha thats exactly what I do, I go to the dance floor and just start dancing by myself and girls always approach me.

GOod job then man! It works at every venue with multiple girls usually.

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The way you word things makes me want to shoot myself. Do me a favor and eliminate the word fail from your vocabulary.

If your going to do club game, your going to get social proof! Talk to every girl in the club, just high energy introduce yourself hi 5, and move on from group to group, then come back to the first group.

If they are dancing, your going to have to pick up your courage to just go dance with them. Women wont refuse someone whos cool, so what are you doing wrong?

Evalute your game, but my instant response is skip club game, your no where near where you have to be to get good at that.