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PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 5:58 am 
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My buddy's and I went out this labor day weekend to a club........we were chillin on line when these two HB 9/10 come walking up to us and ask if they can cut ahead of us cause the guys next to them on line were buggin them......so my friend said yea......then the girls start to ramble on about how hot they are and that there the hottest girls there........the one girl who was a hb 10 turn just kept goin on and on about being hot........so she asked me if I thought she was the hottest girl I have seen all night.....then said "Nahhhh my ex-gf who is in there is 3 times hotter then you"......then one of the girls that came with us said....."3 times then her.....she is atleast 10 times you have to give your ex credit".....at that point the two HB went into bitch mode..........you guys think that was alittle strong for a neg.....cause I got the feeling I upped my DHV and DLV and knocked the girl down a couple of pegs


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it seemed like a straight insult to me. Theres plenty of things you could have said to make it C&F but you and your female wingman just made it cocky and rude.

You gotta say stuff with a smile and a laugh on your face if its going to be that ridiculous. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Thats what its all about though isnt it. Trial and error

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I would have to agree with Jack. You could have gone a completely different way with that (although it seemed to me like they deserved the insult.)

First, your friend shouldn't have let them cut in line. DLV, you just got used. That is what caused them to feel they had the right to be all "I'm hot cause a guy let me cut in line." What should you have done then you ask? Maybe a little "Hmm.. I dunno, what you gonna do for us?" or maybe a "Damn, where are those guys who are bugging you? Are they back there? No? Oh then your safe to go to the back of the line." (remember C&F here) There were tons of things you could do but anyway...

Second, instead of insulting them you could have done the following

HB: "So arent' I the hottest girl you've seen all night?"
You: "Depends, are we going on just looks? Or does that include the important stuff like... personality?" (remember C&F!)

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HB: "So arent' I the hottest girl you've seen all night?"
You: Give her an appraising look like you haven't even noticed her looks the entire time and say "I dunnooo... *insert comment about style choice like shoes matching skirt or whatever* Don't worry, I'm sure your personality will make up for THAT."


Anyway, lotsa options. But your insult was very very very close to a neg. Honestly, a little tweaking might have done the trick.

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"meh, I can see how some people would say that. But I'm more into ____ girls"


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 11, 2007 8:56 pm 
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A) Your friend shouldn't have let them cut

B) They deserved to be insulted. I would have just stared at her and said something along the lines of could you please stop talking, you're ruining a nice picture. Or you'd look great if it weren't for that bitch tatoo running across your forehead. (Be forewarned this will end most any chance of talking to these chicks later and a slap to the face may be in your immediate future.)


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Yeahh..You really should have replied saying something like this...


Yeah your totally one of the hottest girls around here...What are you a hand model???


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Yeah your totally one of the hottest girls around here...What are you a hand model???
haha i really like that one.
gonig to have to try it out myself

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 1:09 am 
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For this situation. I would have went with a silent neg to stay in her ear. I would have said "Sure your hott, but you would have to be a ten to get through my door". Of course this is somewhat obvious, but then you go onto a thread saying that you seen hotter girls and she is nothing special. From there if she bites make her jump a few hoops to demo how "special" she realy is then walk away and come back at a later time to clean up.


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Ya women like that DESERVE to be treated like crap IMO. To answer your question bluntly, I don't think anybody thinks that neg was too harsh, as long as you followed it up correctly. So like
Nah my ex girlfriend is at least 3 times hotter.
You might be attractive, but beauty is common, look around you. What else do you have going for you? So straight off she is qualifying herself to you.
Or you can just use this as a neg and don't even wait for a response and then take 2 steps back and move in with DHV's. Make sure she knows you aren't even slightly interested in her yet.
Remember guys, cock funny doesn't work on 10's so well, depending on how attractive you are. You have to show extreme disinterest until she has given you enough IOI's.


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Say what you will, but I'd have been ok with insulting her straight out. Sometimes people need to be brought down, and I'm always there to do just that. With the lack of personaility she has, I wouldn't have been intrested anyways.


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Say what you will, but I'd have been ok with insulting her straight out. Sometimes people need to be brought down, and I'm always there to do just that. With the lack of personaility she has, I wouldn't have been intrested anyways.
i agree with that. as i've said before, neg a girl depending on how hot she THINKS she is, by that rationailty, she had it coming and I probably would've said the same thing but maybe added something on the end of that sentence to be C&F. I don't think anyone's noticed here that he DHV'd here, thats of course if she believed the statement.

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Haha, brilliant. Reminds me of the latest southpark episode where the girls rate the boys' attractiveness, and the immortal quote that just begs to be adapted into a neg:

'If they only rate looks then I think I'm OK'.


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Should have offered backsies.

and... I'd have ignored that shit and said... "uuughhh... do you think we could jump in front of you guys, these 2 girls in front of us keep bugging me."

or... "Wait.. this isn't some kind of trick is it... where you're like... one of those transexual things from the maury show are you? I turned on my tv the other day..." and just make up some shit.

Never answer a ? like that, it'll just feed her ego. Instead ignore it and start a different thread or something.


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