Hey im brand new to the game and just all this idea in general and ive been out trying this but i end up running into the problem what i have with not just women but everyone. I just cant seem to start or keep a conversation going my mind just goes away and i just cant think of anything to talk about at all !

I need to find some sort of way of breaking this wall down.

any advice?

Have a look to things inside the club and start talking about that. Some decorations in the club, some waiter or wairess, the bouncer, some people dancing funny or dressed weird, ... You can also try to play these little games like the 5 questions game of Neil Strauss or some kino games. You can also go prepared and study some conversational threads by hart.

Answer this question first: honestly, what do you do all day?

Just practice practice and then when you're fed up of practicing practice some more. Look at some threads about kino games, make up a few pre-made DHV stories and practice them ready for the field etc.

This is a tough one. It means you have to start from somewhere, just start talking to people, chat up, ask for opinion and so on. Molson has a good point too, when you have something going on, some great hobby for example that you're enthusiastic about, it tends to affect other areas of life too. It really helps if practice getting enthusiastic.

Some other suggestions, watch talk shows and learn. Read a lot. Get familiar with some of the chick stuff. Then you can use that material when you chat up girls. One thing is that some guys can't relax and let the conversation just flow. Sometimes it's worth letting go of the worrying about the outcome. Being too self-conscious kills conversation.