I developed this with a fellow (i want to say pua but really he's a natural, good looking ripped black guy, not a whitey like me) - i realise that sounded gay. Anyway yesterday i tried this technique out and its amazing how effective it works - you have to bear with me on this.

The biggest hurdle used to be a kiss-close; now its not kiss closing.

Essentially, as most mPUAs will tell you, confusing a girl is one of the best ways of building attraction. So here we go.

From the first thing you say, switch from insult to compliment ligtning fast with no change in tone, body language or levels of eye contact - a typical example would be on meeting a girl for a first date - 'what you couldn't make an effort for me?'. Usually the girl will be offended, so the next stage is - 'im kidding you look gorgeous.' Thats it. Now ignore her for a while - then ask a question like youre really interested - high eye contact, body posture ect.

Do the normal routine - kino, build tension (ive found silence where you dont even attempt to fill it but seem completely at ease - no fidgeting or nervous songs or even worse - 'well this is awkward's) and then finally, when the tension is at its highest - do NOT close.

Say something like 'look youre attractive and you seem cool but i'm still not sure about you' - and end the date.

(depending on how much battering the girls self esteem can take you might want to be nicer to her)

She WILL be thinking about you for days after.

Wait for 1-1.5 days before texting back - 'hey ive decided im too curious to stay away.'

The come back twice as charming - its irresistable.

Laters.

Harem x