Everytime i meet a girl they seem to be interested and texting quite abit for the 1st few days, but then messages seem to become fewer and fewer until they finally stop. any1 got and gud tips to help. cheers

On texts I usually ask more questions than talk.. like it'll be to the point where they say, "So tell me more about you?" and from there you can take the whole thing off text and say, "..maybe we can discuss more about me when you take me to dinner." Not saying you have to make her buy you dinner or anything but that does establish that you want to meet her outside of the text. Do not keep talking to her through text all the time because she will lose interest.. just as you would if this cute girl kept trying to talk to you but never wanted to meet up, ya know? Sooner you meet up with her, the better.

but anyways for tips;
-I never respond back immediately unless we're talking about something real significant (ex. not.. Hey whats up?)
-Send her funny chain letters, strikes up a conversation fast.
(ex. A recent study said that 99% of horny people check their message with their thumb. Don't try to switch it now! Horny Ass! LOL)
-ALWAYS have something interesting to do. I never say, nothing.. when I'm asked what are you doing. It's either, you know thinking of you or watching my teacher wrinkle up her nose when she's lecturing the class.

-don

Do a search. There already is quite a bit of info on this.

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When do you go from texting to calling? I'm in an experience with a hb9 who counter-gamed me and was able to get my number from a painting exhibition postcard, but teasingly wouldn't let me get a number or kiss close after quite a few IOIs. She did text me two days later. We texted back twice and I tried to call that night, perhaps too soon. I didn't want to text for long and considered it a next day call after a number close, even though it was really a same day text then message in a row, now that I think of it. If she doesn't call back tonight, I guess i'll have to wait it out for a few days. What's the best way to transition? What do you think about trying to set something up with text only?

I would give her shit for not ever trying to plan something with you. And when she does, say.. No I think I'm busy that day. Call me to find out my schedule than we can meet up. I've never had any resistance from a girl wanting to meet up after texting for a day or two so there's a low chance of getting rejected. But if she did text you first, it's already an interest in you.

cheers guys thanx 4 the advice.