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| evan023 | PostPosted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 10:33 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Oct 11, 2009 10:31 am Posts: 1 | | im stuck I need some good Pof openers can anyone help
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| RockStar_dallas | PostPosted: Mon Oct 12, 2009 9:07 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Oct 12, 2009 4:21 am Posts: 58 Location: Reseda, CA | | well i wont give you any of my specific openers but...keep the title long as most guys just use 'hello' or 'hi' or ':)'...however do not duche out and try to put something witty...my friend luaren get 30 new emails a day and she can tell by the headline if you're being a gaming douchbag...so keep it simple like 'Hi thought your profile was interesting.'
for the body use very direct game. your both on a dating site right? like 'wanna grab a cup of coffee and chat?' you will be amazed how many times this will work.
if your message is read and she does not respond. message her again, but don't be rude. the cocky funny stuff does not work. It's too avalibe and everybodies doing it. Ask her if she's shy. you're just plowing like you would in set.
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| IceMan-55403 | PostPosted: Thu Oct 15, 2009 1:42 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Jun 07, 2009 11:33 pm Posts: 17 Location: Minneapolis | | Rockstar is right, I have tried Opinion Openers for 50% accuracy and then when they want to know more about the "computer affair", "jealous faceboox ex", "[Drama story]" you can't transition because you are stuck in an opener and you cant improv or take the frame like in real life - "so why are you asking these questions? why are you on pof" - direct quote.
I changed to a direct opener like Rockstar's advice and have got 1/4 number closes after one message.
But I have number closed off the indirects too, just way more work and less success. As in any seduction, you need to tailor your lures to fit your target. But IMHO directs will garner the most return on your time invested based off purely numbers.
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