I have been doing an inventory of my strengths and weaknesses (something I strongly recommend everyone do) and I've coming to the conclusion the largest hindrance in my game is LMR. I decided to do a search on LMR to see what I could come up with for remedies and found that:
1. There isn't much out there!
2. A lot of PUA's have different definitions of LMR.

SO! I'm asking all of you out there in PUA cyberspace to give me YOUR LMR busters. These can be original, reposts or simply helpful links. Any help is appreciated! Hopefully I can also help others to crack this nefarious sticking point.

However, before you reply please know that I am talking about absolute last minute LMR! Not this trying to get her to come to your room shit (we call that seduction where I come from). Shit, I'll call it LSR (Last SECOND Resistance). I mean you both are hot and heavy and in some stage of undress, rounding bases and you're looking at home and BOOM!

"I don't think we should do this."
"I barely know you."
"You are a player!"

I even was in a situation where I girl asked me if I had a condom, then when I got up to grab one said,

"Wait! Nevermind."

Couldn't recover.

I understand this probably has a whole hell of a lot to do with not building comfort early on, but the way I see it is if this girl is willing to hop in the sack and start fooling around there is enough desire to fuck me rolling around in her head that there has to be a way to reframe the situation and take it to the end zone. Had enough sports analogies yet?

One more thing before you reply: Tell me to FREEZE OUT and I will find you and chop your balls off. Seriously. I've heard that one already.

Thanks!

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- Holliday

"I'm your Huckleberry"

In situations like the condom one, try to reduce a chance of a breaking point in which you take a break, even for a second, and allow her mind to regain consciousness. If you can keep the girl from thinking about any regrets, it will greatly reduce LMR.

Leave a condom within reaching distance in your room... or have one in your pocket and don't throw your pants too far. practice opening it with one hand or practice opening it while still being sexually engaged with her by kissing or talking dirty into her ear. If taking off her pants, grab onto the panties and pull them both off at the same time. This will decrease the amount of time getting her nude on the bottom.

Probably one of the biggest things is to use ample amounts of foreplay. Find a technique that will work for you and try to drive her crazy so that she will not be able to resist. If you are able to get to stuff such as fingering, check out White Tiger Tantra or something similar.

If anything else (this is not freezing out) just push the boundaries a little then back off some for a while. Push the boundaries further then back off again but not to the point of where you backed off before (slightly more). I think they call it 1 step forward, 2 steps back.

Nothing else work? Just let her sleep beside you and she will be more likely to screw in the morning upon awakening.

Thanks Jason. I'm guessing you're the same Jason Julius of OrgasmArts? If so, I'm a fan.

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- Holliday

"I'm your Huckleberry"

I don't know, it changes all the time... I usually can't manage Day Twos, which means something went wrong in attraction, comfort or seduction (or a combination of all areas). And regarding the anxiety thing, it's gone down a lot since I started being more social with strangers (forced out of comfort zone), but there's usually still a little too much for my liking. For this poll, I'll vote attraction because it still feels like I'm usually showing too much interest in girls without getting them very interested in return.