girl was a 8.5 on pof she msg'd me first with:

HER: "you seem like a lot of fun...im not sure if i hit you up before but i know that ive seen your profile before. hit me up some time * alicia*"

ME:"Hey Miss Alicia anything fun happening in your life? Causing any
trouble?"

HER:"lol no, i dont cause trouble..i like to do and say things to get reactions from strangers though cause they dont know what to think...its funny so why not, its not hurting feelings it just confuses people and it entertains me...i have my wild side but nothing about it is "troublemaker" so to speak...how about you?"

ME: "aww you like attention that’s so adorable. There's no point in
hiding it I can already tell.....YOUR TROUBLE!!! What does it take
to see that wildside come out to play?"

From here on she changed her subject line from [hey there ] to [good to hear you back!! ]

HER: "no..really im NOT trouble but i am attention needy in relationships i have no problem admitting to that cause its def the truth i have my fun though..on a regular basis..im pretty goofy and very upbeat in the bedroom im definitely a romantic but have a little bit of freak in there too i draw the line at pain and am pretty open to try most anything or already have..i love to play wrestle too..."

ME: "You are sooo cute.. but we’d get on each others nerves - we are
just too similar.. we would pillow fight and throw things and have
incredible make up sex all over the place and fight more sex then
fight sex fight.. and this cycle would just repeat. too much drama
and intense feelings for me!"

HER: "ooooh yeah? you like it!! lol aw gosh u made me laugh all early..sweet, my day has officially gotten a little better..and believe me its had a rough start so far..too early..and too tired...i dont like mornings lol"


ME: "I’m glad to hear that, it’s just too bad I couldn’t see all that
work I put into that smiling canvas. You should try out to be my
new partner-in-crime. Long line, but it might be worth the wait!"


HER: ........?? oh (if u familiar with pof emoticons she added the one with the fishing hook)

ME:"I know sometimes it's hard to express tone while messaging but to
see we on the same page..are you inviting me on to a fishing trip?"

No response after 3 days in a 4 day period.

I moved on from this and dating this other girl i met from pof, i need to know what went wrong and what i could've said. better.

what do i have to say for some helpful advice?

ok you were basically stroking her ego, and she's not even that secretive about it. you should have been full on direct and not literally been fishing.

Instead of this wackness,

ME: "I’m glad to hear that, it’s just too bad I couldn’t see all that
work I put into that smiling canvas. You should try out to be my
new partner-in-crime. Long line, but it might be worth the wait!"

I would have preferred something like:
Glad to hear it - why don't we get together so I can make your night better...

please note this type of borderline sleazy shit should only be done with a girl who is talking like she is...

online is just full of flakes dude. it's a numbers game, so i'm glad you got somethin else cookin. i just had a 4-day exchange with this 8.5, she asked me out for drinks, then drops off the face of the earth. and so it goes.

whats pof

pof = plenty of fish. its a free dating site.

thanks that would've sealed the deal. simple and to the point.

im not reading all that but i got to the part she says shes needy...id be unattracted to that , say ur ex was that way and she knifed ur tires and keyed ur car so u dont fuck with needy girls.

ur not ready for girls to date my friend.
just being honest.

never ask her 2 chill unless you feel chemistry , by chemistry i mean you never second guess what ur typing and convo is smooth and flowing between you to rapidly...

i know its sad but if u met a girl online and theirs not a instant chemistry you have to build comfort for a while and try to wait it out until she asks you, if your fun to talk to she will ask i promise.


u need to build a circle first and go from there , it will make lif alot easier.


find like 5 girls and be there almost gay friend , never ask to chill just be a great friend. these girls can be 10s in fact , and yes u can make friends with a 10 easily online. once u make friends with these 5 girls they will boost your social networking pages ....aka comment ur new pics keep ur comments flowing and make u look pre selected by 10s .


thats when girls from outside your circle will start creeping in out of curiosity .