| Alright, so this is my first FR, I know its not like I went out sarging or anything here, but I feel like I read lots of questions from University students about trying to game a girl they know in class or that they study with etc. This won't get you laid immediately, but I know lots of you PUA use these skills to build confidence and find more then just f-closes so this is for you.
So I was in a situation where I had known this girl from school at a distance for a few months (class together one day a week). This year we have class together for an hour and a half mon.-thur. She sat by me the first day and has sat by me ever since, I know this is the situation for a lot of you other Uni students.
So anyways, I always flirt a bit in class, but there isnt much time to talk because of the classes we are in, but I worked kino when I could.
We started doing hw together each week for one of the classes, and today I went to meet her at a coffee house to work on it. I get there, we sit down and I tease her like I always do, we have a few laughs while doing our hw, and then some of her roommates show up. I wasn't thrilled because I like to have to time on my own, but I used it as an opportunity.
I immediately charmed the pants of her girl roommate when I was introduced by my nickname and simply responded with the quite corny "You can call me anything you want as long as its not late for dinner." Then I also built some rapport quickly with her AFC male friend, while paying a little less attention to her.
After a bit her friends moved, to the booth behind us. Once we finished up our work and I was packing up to leave, I snagged my day 2.
Me: So how come whenever we hang out its always to do educational stuff?
Her: I don't know, we should change that.
Me: (referring to an earlier conversation). I believe you still owe me dinner you know.
Her: No, you said you wouldn't eat mac & cheese from a restaurant.
Me: Irrelevant, when are you taking me out to one those restaurants (she writes reviews for an on campus culinary magazine, so I put the pressure on her)
Her: I dunno, I have to think about it.
Me: What's there to think about? What are you doing this week?
Her: Well we have that marketing exam wednesday...
Me: Great, we can go out to celebrate taking our mid-term.
Her: Are you going anywhere for fall break?
Me: *laughing a bit* No.
Her: Alright well lets do something this weekend then.
Me: *getting up to leave* Alright, figure out where were going.
Then I walked to the booth behind her, said goodbye to her friend (even used a little light kino with her, shoulder touch to accompany the handshake). Then I left.
So there yah go guys. I know its nothing amazing, just getting dinner with a girl, but I know there are a lot of people who struggle with even this! So hopefully reading this helps you out a bit!
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