So I walk in the hallway of my school and theres this chocolate dark skinned fine ass girl i see everyday. I never even attempt to approach her. Its like in my head im telling myself "Go she's just another girl" but i just can't grow the balls to go ahead and do it. I think even if i was to go up to her i wouldn't be able to speak. wtf is wrong with me. I guess i need some advice on something to rid me of the approach anxiety. It doesn't happen usually but with this girl its definitely happening. Please help

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Datboykenan...damn

No you are not gay you just have a serious case of AA - approach anxiety
I still have it some so I can't really help you but just reading around on the forum will help if I find any good like I'll post it for you

No worries brother. It happens to all of us from time to time.
Practice.
I'm gonna say it again.
Practice.

Open at least 3 girls THAT DAY before you go up to her. Make yourself say something RIDICULOUS to an HB3 or HB4.....someone who doesn't make you as nervous, and then just wait for the moment that you have the perfect opener for her. Have the opener and the neg ready to go based on her response and then what you're going to shift into so you can just fluff the conversation. Practice. In front of the freakin mirror when you get out of the shower and are drying off. If you're just reading a script in your mind, it takes yourself out of the equation and makes the approach that much simpler. Good luck chief. And remember: right now you don't have her. If you approach and crash and burn: you don't have her. Same situation. Have no fear. That's what this is all about.