Are mature women in there late 30's - early 40's more game-proof than younger women (say 20's and early 30's). I'm beginning to think the answer is "yes". These older women tend to be quite emotionally mature and intelligent (at least the ones I'm around are), seem to realize what attracts them, but also seem to not chase what attracts them if they feel like it's attraction only and nothing more. I'm finding this right now with a 43 yr old hottie who is strongly attracted to me (and has demonstrated just how much), but still trying to let her mind rule her and going "I just want to be friends".

Thoughts?

Gruuve

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why is this in natural game?

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game proof definitly not... i cant even tell you how many times ive click on the charm with some 30-50 year old wemon and ended up selling them all sorts of shit they dont need just because they thought i was cute. granted im only 22 so they knew it wasnt really going anywhere.

what i can tell you is the older they get the more aware to alot of differnt situations they become.. do you know whats going on in her life? kids? bills? ex? i mean there could be a hole bunch of shit that she is dealing with that you dont know about and its really just not good timing.. how long have you known her? where did you meet... give some details so i can see what were working with...

They are not game proof they just require different things to younger women. Their needs aren't one night stands anymore, they now require a man who seems to have a career, and who is financially stable.

30-40 is when people start to worry about their careers and whether some younger person going up the ladder could take their job. You have to show the quality of being successful and having a sturdy job

I think older women are smart enough to relize what they want. They don't let there emotions control them.

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Walk Hard

You sound like a misogynist who has bitter feelings toward the inherently emotionally abundant nature of women.

Get some therapy, dude. Women deserve absolutely no blame for being feminine, or "letting their emotions control them."

I had a 29 year old that I had going for a little while. I'm was 18 at the time and no lie, this woman looked like the mom from "Weeds". I knew how old she was and didn't care. I needed to atleast try out my skillz. I attracted and closed the same night with a kiss on the bench outside of the grocery store we met at..

It was cute, it really was. Things went well for a few days we had amazing chemistry, I really thought things would go somewhere.

Until she found my id and considered herself a pedifile.

The game works if not BETTER on the older woman, just make sure your intensions are clear. If you wanna one night stand treat it as one, if not well then be honest. It's an attractive trait. =P

I guess we should just control them like robots then.

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Walk Hard

i think older woman know what they want chances are if your young and there interested they just want to get laid as much if not more than you do so its best not to waste yours and there time. That being said the shock and awe is whats best imo when dealing with older woman.

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I agree. Women are emotional, but I don't think women that are older and have more relationship IQ let their emotions control them AS MUCH as younger women do. And yes, I think older women appreciate and respond to honesty...if all you are after is getting laid, then honesty about it will get you that faster than pretending you want a relationship. (Making it clear that you only want to get laid causes her to run you through her "is he hot?" filter, whereas wanting a relationship makes her run you through her "is he good relationships material?" filter...the relationship filter is MUCH more stringent than the "lay only" filter.)

Gruuve

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Btw...there is a beautiful thing that happens for us guys as we all age. In your teens, 20's, etc...it's the guys working to get laid. Scroll forward to you 40's and 50's, and it's the women working to get laid. This is good for us guys, not so good for the ladies.

A 40 year old man like me can choose a woman in their 20's, 30's, or 40's. (I generally wouldn't want to reach into the 50's.) A 40 year old woman can in general only choose from men in their 40's and 50's. There ARE women who choose younger men...but in general women simply aren't comfortable dating someone 10 or 20 years younger than they are...us guys don't have a problem with it. So, as we age, the pool of women we can choose from gets bigger...as women age, the pool of men most of them will allow themselves to choose from gets smaller.

Gruuve

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