So I met this girl probably three weeks ago. Rate her at about an HB8. Now I met her through my cousin and had no intention of gaming her at the time. We go out to a few parties together in a group and I don't really speak to her much as I wasn't really interested at the time.

Then one night we are playing beer pong and she gets really drunk and I told her I would look after her. She ends up leaning on me for half the night at the party and basically grabbing my crotch and ass the whole time. So I could have capitalized on this and took her to bed that night... I'm a man of my word and told her I didn't want for her to do something she would regret in the morning.

So after that night I begin to wonder if she is into me, well lo and behold I get a text message from her the next day thanking me for looking after her last night. She wants to hang out again but has to leave for Cali for the weekend so she can't until next week.

Well during the weekend one of my roommates girlfriends had gotten on my Facebook and photo commented "too cute" on one of her photos. Well this apparently set things off and we flirted the rest of the weekend and I ended up picking her up at the airport. I couldn't hang out that night because I had a test to study for and told her I would make it up to her tomorrow. She continues to text me restlessly the entire night.

The next night a group of people go up to my cousins too play some pong. We play four or five games and we were playing together and since I'm pretty good at pong we are pretty much just buzzed. But she is still all over me like it was last time. Just to sum it up I take her back to my place and we finish the night there.

Now the next morning everything seems fine we cuddle for a little bit, shes calling me baby, and we go out to get some breakfast together. I then drop her off because I have to goto class. I tell her I would like to take her out for dinner some time and she tells me shes not looking to date... Fuck.

I don't here from her for the rest of the day. I txt her asking her how shes feeling and I get a please don't tell your cousin about last night. Ok whatever. Shes very distant the next few days, until we see each other at a party the next few days and she is just txting up a storm with this other guy that she seems to be infatuated with. So I just start the freeze out and she freaks out on me for the rest of the night. On a side note she got waaaaaaaaay drunk the night and ended up with her face on the toilet, gotta love karma.

She ends up txting me 7 times and calling me 3 times the next day and I don't respond to any of it, until the next day. I asked her what her deal was and so on and it ended with a I value our friendship too much to risk ruining it with sex. Well fuck, friend zone here I am.

What do I do now?

Well this whole friend zone thing just wasn't working out for me so I told her we couldn't be friends anymore... wonder if that was a good move?

think ya posted this in the wrong section bro

Ok so this might be the wrong section, but a little update. So it was Sunday that I told her we couldn't be friends and she was just like K. So I haven't talked to her for almost a week now and I get a txt from her today saying. "I wan't to be friends." What should I do?

tell her to come by your place then proceed to sex her.

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maybe you should wait a bit longer then become friends and friend zone the shit out of her. One big neg in a way. Just an idea

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Why would you tell someone you don't want to be their friend?


Talk about hurting someone! I would try and be less emotional with this. Turn your thoughts into rational ones.. Can you see yourself hanging out with this girl as a friend? Are you already having one-itis???? Closing this door will close MANY others. Keep friends.

Stay friends, re-evaluate your game.

You have the same problem as many of us, you're emotionally involved, so you fuck it all up.

It's easy to practice pua on someone you don't care about and have no intention of going any further than the bedroom with. But when you do really like a girl your emotions betray you, they dilute your routines and rational game. You become AFC.

Step back, take a deep breath, metaphorically remove yourself so you're looking down on it all.
Now that you've removed yourself you can now think logically, you can look at the situation and see what the problem is without freaking out. Now build yourself a step by step process to solve the problem AND STICK TO IT. Don't let a setback stop you, keep working routine and don't move on to the next part of the routine until you have tested that she's ready for it.

You can do it. But not if you're allowing your emotions to betray you.

Try a massive freeze out. there was this girl i used to like we hooked up and then she just wanted to be friends. she moved away i didnt see her for a year (doesnt have to be that long) and when i saw her again it was like she forgot what i was like. By this time i had improved my game so she just loved me.

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Dude if she says "lets just be friends" try saying something like, "I promise no such thing. (this makes it clear that you are not up for the whole LJBF bullshit) The only thing I can say is I dont want to do anything unless we're both completely comfortable with it.