Hi guys,
Was out last night at a club and went in with a couple of friends who aren’t exactly Matador or J Dog or whoever but anyways get in and spot two girls, an Asian girl and Spanish(my target).
I angle nearer and nearer dancing but two guys are next to the babe so rather than pass through them and pull up next to her I pace myself and wait. Of course, meanwhile my AA is increasing with every breath but anyway, finally the two guys buzz off and so I get nearer and run an opener. It hooks and there is a name exchange. I had opened the obstacle. I didn’t engage my target at all. I tried to act like I was shooting my questions etc at the obstacle.
Anyway, I shoot myself in the foot and eject. I just didn’t feel like I was getting any real IOIs, when I think that I should have then asked the Asian to introduce me to my target and then perhaps have asked my friends to come over but by this time they were practically falling over drunk. I was stone sober. So maybe this would have lowered my value.
Thing is half the time when I do an approach, half of me is saying, why bother, just to get blown off and this really dents my game. I don’t really believe in myself.
Next set, I run my opener, she pretends the music is too loud and turns her back. I wish her a nice evening and leave. It was really embarrassing because my friend, although really stoned, was looking on as if to say WTF!!!
I have been approaching now for 8 months. I don’t feel in clubs that I am anywhere near as good as I want to be.
Suggestions about my first approach guys would really be appreciated.
I don’t feel that I am much further forward in the clubs than the first night I tried “the game”. Help!!!
All the best!

Ok, when your in clubs and you dance with girls some of them don't even bother looking at the people they dance with so just by approaching your doing better than 50% of these people I like to call (pussy-guys). When you go approach, think of it like this its a club, people are here to have fun, meet people have a great time. Have a "I don't give a fuck about shit" attitude, if you get blown-off, soft theres tons of more chicks you can talk to. Just be super confident and a high energy is important. Good Luck!