I currently have 4 targets in the works, two nieghbors and two school mates, one of the school mates seems to appear to be girlfriend material we seem to have alot of shit in common, the other 3 are "hit it and quit it" types.

the gf material target is my first priority. i have gotten IOIs from her and i managed to get her # and email. althought it was ackward cause my inner AFC came out and almost fucked it up, heres what happened


during class things were going well, we talked to each other etc could tell she at least liked me as a friend, after class my inner afc came out and i walked after her (i know this is bad because it a DLV) i should have been patient anyways i suggested that we study together since we have a few other classes together as well she agreed and seemed a little nervous
which in turn made me feel nervous, we exchanged emails and #s and we figured out a time to study

as a matter of fact she said great, sounds like a date, i know shes single i would like take it further than the study thing though. i believe im in A3 phase, i know i need to go kino and build comfort and rapport. i dont wanna fuck this up, if i do ill learn from it and move on to my other targets.

any suggestions?

Skittlepimp

when studying sit on the floor, with her back to a couch if possible. Then a bit into the studying go get something to drink, not alcohol, and when you come back sit on the couch behind her and start to massage her neck, then if her interest goes from studying to you step 1 is complete. Then ask her something like, if you know her decently, "What don't I know about you?" That sounds a little AFC, but it's worked for me. Have her go on about herself for awhile, and move the massage from her neck to her back to her lower back, etc. but don't make it sexual get her used to being touched by you. Remember to stop eventually like you just got tired of massaging her lay down in front of her and say "your turn" this will show your not afraid of control and being dominant, women need a man who is in control. Make sure to only allow yourself an hour and a half most for the study period.

If she is very into school remember that she may not want to get distracted from studying, just give her a 5 minute massage in this case and quiz each other on shit. If this happens arrange to just hang out and try what I've said then.

Make a time constraint before you study though, that way if things go bad you can split, make it so that you only have 30 minutes to an hour.

If all goes well you should be able to kiss close, and if done very well get laid then and there. remeber to qualify and keep the attraction going as well.

good luck dude let me know how it goes.

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thanks man, will do although i have to meet her at school, we are gonna meet in between classes and probably go to an empty class room, im definately gonna go kino, im gonna give her a palm reading and tell her shit about herself that i figured out when i secretly looked her up on facebook.

when she asks how i knew all that i did, ill tell her if your good ill tell you later, something i got from watching mystery. of course i wont tell her how i did it tell after at least an f close

i wish she was coming over to my crib but this is all i have to go on so far, after this im gonna shoot for my place then do the massage thing


i guess left some details, thanks man for the advice im gonna use it for sure! ill keep you posted.

skittlepimp

good idea, just remember not to do anything that's been used on vh1, chicks love that show. If you need to alter the tactics that way she won't notice what youre doing.

Remember to set up a meeting outside of school all together. It sounds like youre on the right track. and don't go afc no matter what happens keep your damn pride.

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went to meet with her after class and she said she needed to call her fiance first then she would be there, so i decided to play it cool and just study, at least i have a study buddy and perhaps a pivot, so im now working on the other 3 targets, btw im always looking for targets, it just so happens that i only have 3 right now.

i was disappointed but fuckit im hittin the ground running and moving to the next.

thanks for the words of wisdom ill keep that in mind about the show, chicks do love vh1 anyways ill keep ya posted on the other 3 and any potential targets

thanks
Skittlepimp

all that advice is good, just remember to not do anything thats incongruent, dont do anything that you didnt do before

girls hate it when you change on them really quick, cuz theyll be like "wtf wheres the guy i knew" and thats never good. if you want, you can slowly change into like the "hitting on her" type from just being friends, which is what sounds like your doing. good luck

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I would have still chased it. when a chick is in such a serious situation like that they get freaked out at times. You can't do anything now, you waited too long, but if you two get close enough and she freaks there may be a lay there.

Just do what youre doing, go after the other chicks. good luck dude.

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