Go find another girl. Make her jalous and detatch yourself.

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well you got a little compitetion, this isnt the worst thing that has ever happend, you need to evaluate these guys game... i mean really break it down, dont just point out there faults also find there strengths aswell. its time to do a little bit of recon reguarding these guys... drop stratigic points about you and this girl hanging out... (DO NOT BRING UP THE KISS) this might through the other guys out of the chase with her but you might also loose her in the process if you seem kiss and tell. do you know how to amog? amog= alpha male other guy... the startigy is clevery delivering back handed compliments to lower social value other the other guy... there is a huge list of ways to do this like interupting him while hes talking to her (basicly makes other guy look inferior to you). or you could mis inturperate something he says to you to make him look like a chode.. *important you need to have girl around for any of these* one i heard tyler durdin using went like this:

other guy: how do you no (girls name)?
Pua: oh her i fucked her
Other guy: oh
girl: him no he didnt hehehehe
pua: shes just being modest
girl: stop it hahahaha
pua: thats not what you were saying the other night
girl: something(interupt)
pua: no her i know her outta class (ie)

this should all be said with a smerk on the face in a funny cocky way..
i have feild tested this one it worked wonders the guy left before i could even look back at him.. and the girl and i were just laughing. granted she was not my target that night but i wanted to see how that line would go so nothing happend between us. (i did end up crashing in my targets bed that night)

now as far as the romantic aspect with the other guys in class for all we know at the current moment there just friends. back when i was really afc i thought a ton of girls were hot didnt mean i was doing jack shit with them. first thing is to not ask jealous of them thats a beta trait what you want to do is just out skill them in game.// this is why the recon is important if you can i want you to actually set up a meeting with these guys like a hang out maybe a study group what eve and get this girl there too she should have no reason for rejecting a social hang out with people that shes already texting and talking to especially since she made out with you.

"pissed off, not at her, but in general, that I thought that she was this sincere genuine girl and GF material, but what she did maybe suggests that she is maybe an attention-whore or manipulative or trying to play the field or whatever"
^I wanted to draw your attention to this this seemed contradictory to me and would come across as jealousy to a girl.. im not saying that your not justified by any means chicks are dumb like that... my wing an i have a saying for them (chicks are like parking spots there whores and liers) you can steal that if you want. but i guess my point on what you have said is that if your to a seperation point with her based on everything you have learned, i wouldnt put in the work...

on the other hand if your not doing anything else girl wise might as well play it out and get some exp maybe learn some new tricks maybe get a lay out of it and who knows maybe a girlfriend if you still want.

romeo where you from?

boise idaho... never move here seriously its so small wish i had money to get out.

By bringing up the guys that she sent the same text to simultaneously, I was intending to shed light on her character and personality, not bring up the guys as a problem. I do not feel threatened by these two guys. We're all friends, albeit not close ones. What sucks is this girl is probably going to cause a rift, taking up all the attention. They don't know I'm getting at her and I don't intend to let them know. I definitely will not kiss and tell because in the past that turned out badly. One of these guys I have heard is good looking from girls. Still, I'm not worried because they aren't "PUAs" and they're not any better than me, and I know I'm way ahead. On top of that, the good looking one does not have a car, and the other one thinks the girl has a BF. I also would not want to AMOG them. So far things are alright, I'm probably going to hang out with her sometime next week.

My apartment told me to be confident by being self-amusing and nonreactive.

i would agree if you are self intertaining thats normally a pretty big dhv because they know your not needy. its actually a good thing that you guys are friends you can use that as social proof (leader of men) while maintaining your friendships. sorry for the time its taken me to write back i normally do alot of my field work friday and saturday. let me know how your hang out goes with her.

You got any cool canned lines for any situation

IMO, LTR is all about spending more time with her. And mindset to have a good LTR or healthy relationship is to never think that u want to have her as a girlfriend.
I know this sounds very bullshit, but my takes on this is just to keep you as the guy who have fun and doesn't have much stress on make her as your GF and stuff, just have fun and see what happens.

Best pal,
Steven

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well lines are a little differnt when your going from cold approches to warm approches so i dont think most of my lines will work... im more of a natural anyways by now i just am smart about it and keep studing the game and soaking up more shit. if your looking for canned lines i might suggest watching some comedy specials like daniel tosh, phanny mae, pretty much any one that you find funny to your personality, and the way you set up something like this is by giving credit to the comic and still telling his joke because you still get the laugh and that way it doesnt look like your trying to claim orriginality on the joke if they have heard it but they still think its funny. this actually works really well for anytime the convo drops between you two.

Today, after Chinese class, I left without talking to her. Chinese class ends at 11:50. On mondays and wednesdays, I have class right after at 12, and I didn't want to be late. As I got to my 12 o'clock class, she sent me a text saying "you okay? you seem upset"

I said "I would have been upset if I was late to my 12 o'clock class
She responded: oh okay, just wanted to say hi but you left so quick. So ill just text you.. hello :]

Then after my 12 o clock class, i asked her if she wanted to do Chinese HW with me, which is what she came over last time for when I ended up k-closing.

she said "haha you're sneaky I have to be on my guard

and then she ended up saying she was busy

Update:

Today, after class. I asked her if she wanted to go with me to a haunted house thursday night. She said she was too chicken for that. I said that I'm a chicken too thats why I needed her to accompany me. She then said I'll go if Wen goes, and that she will ask Wen (Wen is another girl in that class, wen is definitely attracted to me but I don't find her attractive, they met in that class but are not like best friends or anything)

What does this mean? What is the point of her proposing to ask Wen? Is it a way for her to refuse passively? And if she does want to go, Wen would be the 3rd wheel...

What do you guys think? I don't feel like being the chaser anymore. This is bullshit. I'm a very impatient guy

Look up Swinggcats audio course, his way of describing Prizability is KEY for any social circle situation. You could go all out trying to figure out how to attract her but you're wasting ALL your energy in the process.

Energy flows where attention goes.

So if your spending all your time TRYING to attract her, she'll pick up on this and start pulling away from you as a passive shit test of sorts.

It's more proactive to just work on yourself with the PURPOSE of improving your overall situation, TRUST ME. Just become an attractive indivisual and she'll come.

I had the same situation with this one girl, I actually spent the whole summer practicing for her. I learned how to have sex better, communicate better, open sets, create wealth, be healthier, kiss close, number close, etc, just so I could have the balls to pursue. But with all these accomplishments under my belt nothing was going anywhere until I realized that I wasn't the prize anymore with her.

It was ok tho I had placed her on such a high place that I outdid myself trying to live up to her standards. Now I have atleast 6 beautiful woman approaching me a day. All that time I spent trying to get her paid off because I changed my ENTIRE life and in the process realized that I could have anyone. It gave me real posture knowing that I best possible commitment any girl could make.

Start having beliefs amigo and you'll be fine.
Just remember to BE THE PRIZE or else she'll give you shit. =P

good post millstone. I so often forget I am the prize..and I push and push cause I see what I want in my sights...but that scares 'em off

That's some great advice millstone. Yesterday, I updated my apartment mate with the situation with the girl, and he basically told me that I was being crazy and driving myself insane for this girl. I thought about what I was doing and realized how dumb I was being. I spend so much time thinking and stressing over her, thinking of what to say, new things to do, new strategies, posting on this forum... etc... instead of focusing on myself and having fun. I forgot that I am the prize, not her, and that the most important person is myself. I forgot that I initially attracted her because I was a confident high value guy who didn't have an agenda (I thought she had a BF at the time). Now I'm just going to back off and stop chasing, and have fun with my fraternity bros, sorority girls, go to the gym, and handle schoolwork. I still like her, but fuck it, the road I was on was going to push her farther and make me look AFC. High-value/status people don't need to try to DHV or do things to impress

I'll keep you guys posted if there are any new developments.

Kudos amigo, be safe on your journey! =P