I have noticed different women often use the exact same lines with the exact same hidden meaning. I am wondering if this is the case here and I am missing something.

2 nights in a row I have got this exact line from 2 different girls.

The first I had spent 3 days on a commercial sailing trip with a girl. Had her isolated the second night, but no kiss, then KC'd the 3rd night back in town. I figured I had a chance of a full close as I had spent tonnes of time in comfort etc and a KC could have happened earlier but was never able to fully isolate her on the boat. After KC'ing on the beach we decided to go back to my hostel and grab my sleeping bag to 'lay out and watch the stars' back on the beach, but when we went by her hostel she "decided to go to bed." I was fairly certain she wanted to get laid, maybe the seduction location wasn't satisfactory?

The next night I met another girl while staying on a cattle ranch (dorms) for a night. Had no problems attracting, though I never directly demonstrated value to her (She probably heard me DHVing to the boys over dinner though before I opened her, I thought she was listening.) I was able to isolate her (to the paddock ;p) for a KC but again she decided to go to bed (No good seduction location again?)

So the only common thread I see is no good seduction location... I am nearly certain neither night was an invitation to their bed, I tried that but maybe I was not smooth enough.

I keep hearing the same thing on this site.

Man the problem you have is attraction, yer you could have kissclosed, If she didn't see you as her brother. You think the scenorio you discribe is ideal. ITS NOT!
You work with her so any romance that goes wrong would be arkward so you have to be really worth it.
Anti slut defence ishigh due to you knowing EVERYONE she does.

Don't go with people in your own workplace.
Need help with attraction just ask. Next time just talk about past girlfreinds and crazy adventures..

I disagree that attraction is the problem. I KC'ed both of these girls with no difficulty; and am pretty sure they are both into me. I could be wrong but since then I spent another night with the first girl. She was rubbing my crotch (and vice versa, I may be guilty for starting that ) when she said flat out staying in hostel dorm sucks.

Any other insights?

i personally think its a case of LMR with atleast the first chick and heres why there was really nothing else you guys could have been doing out there other then fucking and heres where i think the other guy posting is correct anti slut defence kicks in closing on co workers has to be rapid if you ask me so theres little to no chance for LMR or A-SD

We were actually both passengers, but lmr might make a bit more sense. I got an apartment today (she knows there is a seduction location now) and she was super cold. I'll think about that.

We were actually both passengers, but lmr might make a bit more sense. I got an apartment today (she knows there is a seduction location now) and she was super cold. I'll think about that.

We were actually both passengers, but lmr might make a bit more sense. I got an apartment today (she knows there is a seduction location now) and she was super cold when last night I couldn't even get her off me as I walked her back to her hostel. I'll think about that.

wait it was super cold outside to her and you wanted to sleep outside? ... it could have just been a bad case of location.