Lately my girlfriend has been sort of distant, and just doesn't seem all there with me anymore. So I asked her about it, and she says she's not sure what it is, but something is different.

In the past she's gotten bored with guys, and I'm afraid that's whats happening with me.

In the summer, we worked together, hung out a lot and fucked a lot. But now that schools on we see each other once a week and it hasn't been the same.

We are meeting on Friday to talk.

I still want this relationship to go, but I'm not sure if she does.

What options do I have?

B-Man

ouch... this ain't good.

the best thingto do is to talk with her ..... be 1 step ahead of her and tell her what she probably thinks. If shes bored with the relation - then you must tell her it's getting bit boring - Before she opens her mouth.

the best thing to do .... take her to some place have a blast and after that - talk about the relationship.

if she doesn't want it or you are unsure she wants it or not you can't do much about it.....

if she dumps you ..... please don't be mad or anything just act like you were thinking the same. only be mad if she insults you personally during the break up.

all relationships are push-pull, youre giving too much and as a result shes holding back.

remember all the things you learned in this....

talk to her and arrange to hang out then blow her off for something else, or arrange it to be when you already have something planned then pulled the ohh I forgot I have plans line, when she gets pissed be like sorry baby lets reschedule and then give her a time frame but nothing specific. don't be mean about any of this just act like you have alot going on. Or have a long fun conversation with her without complimenting her, calling her baby, or saying anything nice. don't be mean but treat her like a friend. She'll probably start to feel you being distant and use obtaining your interest as a form of social validation.

Most people would say that this doesn't build a steady relationship thaty ou want to be in anyways. But if you can manage to do stuff like this on a smaller scale throughout the relationship she'll always be interested.... either that or she'll eventually get emotionally attached, or