Can people please help me by listing some NLP anchoring techniques. I know the "butterfly feeling" (havnt put it into practice yet tho). but I would like to know a few more., theeres lads, game on.

Anchoring is really very simple. Its just doing something that reminds you of something.

You do something to the girl that reminds her of something.

Everytime she laughs, you touch the same part of her body. Now when you touch it, she remembers the laugh (emotion you anchored to it), and laughs even if theres nothing funny said.

If you have a song that makes you happy, then your happiness is anchored to that song.

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That's so true. The Vanessa Carlton song 'A Thousand Miles' reminds me of the time I saw this girl I really fancied dancing with another guy many years back.

I've long since gotten over the girl, but whenever the song plays, I still feel a little down. How's that for an anchor?

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I think you'd like that sadness anchored in that song to go away.

Start listening to that song more and more while you focus on doing something else.

You will see the results as long as you don't try to remember the sad feeling while listening to the song.

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Sounds like a good idea. Whenever that song comes up, I just react by switching channels, or switching it off.

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Hi Bros,

I thought I should add my 2 cents to anchoring...

Basically.. anchoring can be anything. Mostly people remember smells best because that goes directly to the brain by passing the conciouys mind. That means smells are the most direct and powerful anchors.

Having said that most people can only smell in a very limited area. So either the stimulus must be strong or repeated or both.. That is why most people can remember the smell of their mothers cooking or their grandmothers room or the perfume of a girl they loved..

Why am I saying all this about smell because it is powerful.. So if you are sarging have a cologne that the girl can remember and anchor that smell to you.. (that is I presume you know basic anchoring..)

Next... Give her something that has that smell which she can smell jsut abotu everyday.

Songs are great.. which is the next step... Find out her favorite song and have that anchored to you.... And make a cd of it so she remembers you day and night..


Add some spice.. and some seasoning.. Voila you got a recipe for success.

Happy sargings

Brother Mois

Hey guys

I will make this short and sweet. I am a clinical hypnotherapist and I have studied many many forms of hypnosis, NLP and alike.

No one teaches anchoring like Tom and Kim from Essential Skills. I have been using thier stuff now since the start of the year and I went to their seminars this year in London.

I am great at anchoring now, it is so easy to do if you do it correctly and very very powerful. It is all about the elicitation, then placing the anchor and making it so you have a slide or control of some sort.

NLP teaches anchoring very poorly, the usual "think of a time" crap. And then take that feeling and double it and double it, and then at the peack you touch them. This is NOT natural is you can't use it in the real world.

Look go to www.essential-skills.com and read about it there.

Matt

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Anchoring:

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At the end of every spectacular night I kiss her on the left cheek.
When at the peak of orgasm I say "Mmmm.." in her left ear.

When she's laying on the bed just chatting with some friends, she catches a glimpse of me walking into the room. I sneak up as if to whisper something in her ear. I kiss her left cheek and say "Mmmm.." into her left ear.

Linking 2 different types of memory anchored pleasure along
with a feeling and a sound. It automatically makes her go off.

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anchoring is doing something that reminds the person on how you feel at the moment. for example after your favorite team wins, you can anchoring by rubbing your finger tips together or something. OR you can make a girl feel a certain feeling by touching her a certain way to bring up that feeling.

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How about reading what other people had posted before post in a topic? Thank you.

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Hello gents,

I'm new to all this.

But my story is I got with this girl when she had just finished with her ex. She became really needy and kept threating to leave so I let her.

Problem is now I want to sleep with her because shes good in bed and FIT what do I do to get her back there?

im pretty new to this site but ive been reading around and i thought of a really easy way to build a powerful comfort anchor while running a great routine.

most people im sure are familiar with the cube routine. so when your beginning the routine, tell her you have to prepare her mentally for the reading. tell her to relax all her muscles, think of a happy place, happy memories, being with friends etc. and then develop the anchor, i think a physical anchor would work best like gently grabbing her shoulder as shes doing this. this way you can initiate the anchor at the same time as performing mild kino to get her into her comfort zone even more effectively. at the end of the cube routine tell her shes tense and needs to relax again. give her the same verbal cues and even massage her back, then make sure to gently grab her shoulder agian after shes feeling comfortable. i havent field tested this but i wanted to get it down in writing before i forgot.

now youve got a good routine in at the same time an easy anchor is set to get her comfortable with your presence. two birds with one stone.

i would love to hear some opinions from more experienced PUAs. thanks.