I've sat next to this girl in one of my classes a few times. And I've talked to her in before class starts (basically just about the class and i've thrown out a few jokes here & there). I think she might be interested its just that she seems kind of shy like me.

But anyways its a music class and we have to go to 2 concerts before the end of class. I've never formally introduced myself to the girl bcuz it would have felt awkard, but I wanted to ask her if she'd want to go to one of the concerts with me. And when I did it I was gonna try to get her number & formally get her name.

Should I do this and how?

anyone?

yah man, im gaming a girl in my class. i talked to her for a bit and she told me she had a boyfriend. I see her in class every tuesday so ive made it into a small game where i tease her for comming back every tuesday to see me, when in reality she has to, its her class too. Make her laugh. Its key. Pull her aside after the joke is getting old be like , hey so on the real, i think your adorable, run away with me, ill take you to places youve never been etc. Its ezier if you think u can actually do this. like hypnotica etc.

Its easy my friend, but yoy have to step out of your comfort zone and you can't be afraid anymore!

you know this girl better than I do so sit down right now and think of a convo topic that would work great between you two, think of a question or statement that would get the convo started.

In the middle of the conversation interrupt and say "hey you are kinda cool, what do you say we go to this concert together?"

She hopefully says yes!

"Yeah that would be fun, so whats your number?" "Hey I realized we haven't even properly introduced ourselves, I'm ..."

Use huge amounts of confident and convincing voice while you say this and it will give you her number my man!

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You have to introduce yourself man...

Just say something simple like, "Hey, I'm *name (I recommend full name to separate yourself)* what's yours" AT LEAST. When has this not worked in your life? Introductions ONLY get increasingly awkward if you don't do it from the start. Don't hesitate any longer.

Just remember that the next time you see a girl that you're interested in. Don't fret it's NEVER too late to introduce yourself lol that's E-Z stuff, start building momentum already. It's also important to use her name once you learn it, don't just say "hey" when you're referring to [name].

You shouldn't be shy either, what's the point of being just as afraid as she is? If you don't start practicing you're going to fall behind and make your irrational fears (AA) reinforced.

Getting their number is another easy part. I don't recommend just getting it for the concert, you're suggesting you're either a) a chicken shit pushover (avoid this please...) or b) interested in her company for academic reasons aka LJBF. There are many many posts on what to do next (the calling etc.).

If you like a girl normally you do something FUN before the mandatory/boring stuff (concert could blow you never know, but it doesn't set up the same anticipation/expectations of fun as something else like a dinner or club). In other words, you're dragging the same academic SPAM with you by thinking the concert is your best bet to get to know her.

And to boost your confidence, since you're shy she's probably wondering if you like her or not, but that hasn't stopped her from talking to you right?! Pursue!

THANKS GUYS!

I think i like Skywalker's approach. Get on a good conversation and be like "You're pretty cool, we should go to one of those concerts we have to go to together" and then somewhere along the line be like "u know i've never really introduced my self to u"

And Luky i see what you're saying about the concert thing being school-related, i might try to get her to go somewhere else. Or somewhere after the concert.

I'll tell u guys what happens THANKS AGAIN

today things went great! when we first got in the class we were helping each other with this assignment that was due. And interesting enough she brought up the concerts herself, at first it kind of threw me off but then I was like "we should go to one of em' together" and then I was like "we should exchange number's" and during the number exchange we were able to get over formally introducing the names.

She said that she'll call me when she looks at the concert times. Only thing I need help with is sometimes I run out of things to say and talk about. But today I was able to throw a few negs.

THANKS