this is the first time ive used "game/pua" methods in a bar..

i totally killed the 3 second rule, waited about 30 minutes - which made it VERY hard.

there was 2 sets, one directly across from wing and I (not interested) and a 3 set to our left

so i was feeling very AFC, actually my biggest concern and hesitation was that i would run out of material and then just be standing there with my dick in my hand...

i tell wing, dude weve already DLV'd ourselves by sitting here so long, lets hit up the bar nextdoor.

wing says, descartes we are not going anywhere until you open the 3 set (which was a good motivator) with at least an opinion opener

so im like... FINE! haha, i get up, go over there with HIGH energy (which was key i think) and actually i was full of confidence upon approach...

i open with... "i need a female perspective... my friend and i arguing... you HAVE to settle this..."

so i go into the "who lies more" routine...

girls buy it Hook Line and Sinker..

we actually go on for 5 minutes plus on this alone... i even tried to eject and they wouldnt let me (why was i trying to eject?.. good question, because i told myself i was only going to do the opener for one...)

see, prior to entering, i had a routine stack in my mind...

1.who lies more
2. who cheats more
3. hey this place (bar) looks old and shit, like maybe it could be haunted.. do u believe in ghosts..
and i have a couple more

OK, so the thing is, they were SO INTO THE WHO LIES MORE THING, i was thinking it would be random and haphazard to transition into the ghost thing, i totally had them hooked but i feel like i had baited them on the "i need you to settle this thing" and i felt if i transitioned they would have at that point realized i was hitting them up/ gaming and i'd get blown out.

i gave a time constraint and even TRIED to leave which was a time constraint... ONE PROBLEM was i went in not having a target i just went in, there was two 7s, i negged the one on the right (when she made a comment about them being smart girls, and me saying "im not so sure" tho i may have crossed the line into an insult with that?)

so anyways i felt stupid transitioning from this entrenched convo on who lies more to something like ghosts... so I EJECTED

now i know i shouldnt have done that

my question is, how should i have transitioned basically

further, 10 minutes after i left, a guy went to their table, they looked like they were going to blow him out but he ended up staying, his two wings came over but DID AND SAID NOTHING

so i told my wing im gonna try to number close the 7 on the way out (premature)

and it was premature, it didnt work, i think i severly DLV'd as well by leaving and then when i did return i came with low energy and little congruency with that i was saying

so thats my piece

when i first read the thread title, i swear it said premature ejaculation.

since they were loving you, transition into something harmless like, "how do you guys all know each other?"

and once i eject from a set, even if i say i'll be back in a few, i never return. i wait for them to approach me before i talk to them again...and of course, i stay busy by talking to other girls.

that's just me though.

EDIT: no wait...the ONLY time i will talk to the set again is if it went very well and they are lingering around me for no reason. in this case, in the middle of another conversation, i will say over my shoulder, "jesus...you guys are following me around aren't you? I just met you, and you're already stalking me. Well here, listen to this..." or i'll introduce them to whoever i was talking to or whatever...

Just as a quick point. Your neg was just fine.

EvoJ

I read the title of this thread like 7 different times in 7 different parts of my day and thought the exact same thing. I purposely came into this thread JUST to say that and low and behold the first line of the first post is that

- Memento