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PostPosted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 7:22 pm 
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I have had sex 3 times, with 3 different women and each one i found boring. Anyone else have this problem?


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 7:32 pm 
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maybe it was that u used a bad condom i can't really say jet try oral or something.


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I agree with the person above, I used a really shitty condom before, and I got like no pleasure aside from just being with the girl. I would try a thinner condom, Durex extra sensitive lubricated, are good. They are 20% thinner and feel better then normal condoms.

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But if that doesn't help maybe this will, I can't post links so:
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Cowgirl
It’s no surprise that this classic male pleasure position has stood the test of time; maximum penetration for both partners allows for some of the best sex imaginable. It makes our list for one simple reason: She does all the work. You’re certainly welcome to help her along, but most of the physical work is carried out by her. This means you can lie back and enjoy the view as she bobs and jiggles her way (and yours) to orgasm. The cowgirl also provides maximum penetration, which equals maximum stimulation for you.

Tip: If she’s especially self-conscious about her body, try suggesting the reverse cowgirl instead: It’s the same idea, but facing the opposite direction. This position will feel just as good while alleviating any concerns she might have about feeling overexposed.
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Around the bend
Deep thrusting is a primal sexual urge experienced by most men. Unfortunately, many traditional positions prevent thrusting to the hilt, which can leave a little something to be desired when it comes to sex. This male pleasure position, however, in which you bend her over the nearest piece of furniture, will satisfy that urge from the moment of penetration. With her legs spaced and her rump in the air, you’ll be able to thrust deeply without having to worry about injuring her during the act.

Tip: If she complains about the lack of intimacy, you can resolve this by simply leaning forward until your chest is touching her back; this will make her feel more like you’re having a shared experience, and less like she’s only there for your own pleasure.
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Inverted rear
This is another male pleasure position that makes thrusting easy. Lie down on your back and have her lie on top of you while facing the ceiling. Grab her thighs and spread her legs apart until she’s in a reverse straddle. Due to her positioning, her mobility will be limited, but yours will be relatively unencumbered. Once she’s in position, you’ll be able to thrust as deeply as you like, for as long as you like -- preferably until she’s screaming your name.

Tip: Wild sex in this position can make it difficult for a woman to stay balanced; be sure to keep a firm hold of her thighs to help her stay on top.
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Full mast
You’ll need a relatively limber woman for this male pleasure position. While she’s lying on her back, raise her legs until they’re positioned at a 90-degree angle in relation to her body. Kneel in front of her and place her legs against your chest while keeping them firmly held together. Not only will this position provide yet another means of deep thrusting, but the action is also likely going to be far tighter than usual, thanks to her thighs being drawn together.

Tip: Occasionally, when the thrusting really starts to get good, men have a tendency to raise a woman’s back further away from the mattress than comfort permits. Forceful thrusting can exert a significant amount of pressure, so make sure her back is getting enough support as you drive her to ecstasy.
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The lotus
As with the cowgirl position, this male pleasure position requires her to do most, if not all, of the work. You’ll need to sit cross-legged on the bed (or floor, though that won’t be very comfortable after a few minutes, trust us) and pull her onto your lap. The idea is to have her straddle you via wrapping her legs around your waist, and then raise herself up and down until you’ve both collapsed in a heap of spent pleasure. If she’s having trouble moving up and down, rocking back and forth is just as mind-blowing and less stressful on the lower back.

Tip: Lean against a wall or headboard during this one. Not only will it support your back, but it will also give her something to hold onto, which will make it far easier for her to ride you.
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Doggy style
Doggy style -- the staple of the porn industry. Perhaps one of the most animalistic scenarios when it comes to sex, this male pleasure position is all about getting one’s rocks off. A relatively easy position to deliver the goods from, doggy style gives you deep penetration at the pace of raw lust. Not only is this position straight to the point, but it’s also straight to orgasm with the least possible effort.

Tip: Many women complain about the lack of intimacy when it comes to doggy style. This is because men often go through the motions without any other type of contact. To make her feel more connected, try a bit of dirty talk, gentle hair tugging or even mild spanking.

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Are you perhaps emotionally disconnected from the experience? Do you feel like you are physically there, but your mind/heart is elsewhere?


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Why is this a "problem"? If you find sex boring, pick up golf. . . or fishing . . . or paddle ball.


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yeah, i dont find sex boring, my problem is that I think too much, then again it isn't too big a problem because it means I can go for an hour or so, haha now doesnt that sound cocky. yeah i really hafto focus hardout on how it feels to come, maybe im ADHD


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 30, 2009 6:21 am 
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yeah i have the same problem, the only time i enjoy sex is with girls im dating...not one night stands. Even with girls im dating it takes about 2 or 3 weeks of going out before I enjoy sex. For me there has to be more of an emotional connection and not so much a physical connection (it doesn't hurt though!) So be with the girl for awhile and I bet you will start liking sex.


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if you really like her, the sex will usually be good. i am done with casual shags as they just dont do it for me (unless we have amazing chemistry from the word go). I would rather not have sex than have sex just for the sake of having sex.


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first time i had sex - it was boring, dull, not exciting - tbh, i had more fun playin sonic vs. knuckles afterwards when she left.

sex can b great if the girl means something to yu - if its a one night stand. dont b boring, do something amazing that stands out and the girl will remember. do it in an interesting place, play certain records, play games during foreplay - sex doesnt hav to be serious all the time, make the entire experience memorable for the girl, yu will benefit from it. :)


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karma sutra....


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Banging simply to bang is kinda like eating simply because there is food on your plate.


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yeah same here but the thing i have sex with my ex girl freand like evry day and it got to the point that it was boring. and i diren't have that much pleshure/. any how after that i gave sex a lil brake. and then after a week and a half had sex and it was great. what i'm train to say is , if u having sex evry day give it a lil break.




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I have had sex 3 times, with 3 different women and each one i found boring. Anyone else have this problem?
Sex once with a woman is usually not good, thats why i prefer 10night stand in front of 1nightstands.

Sex is mutual work, work on it together and it will become amazing!

Thats why I recommend all young PUAs to keep your girls for a little longer so you can learn to become better in bed


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plus sleeping with the same girl twice allows you to try the weird stuff

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