I just finished watching a video of AFC Adam talking at the 21 convention where he talks about Frame Control [and other such things].
What I've noticed is some of his ideas go against the typical pua techniques and such, but I was wondering about when trying to make your frame 'resonate' with the chicks frame, couldnt this come across as trying to qualify yourself to her, if done poorly?

Im probably missing something, but Its an area I think could slip into either category or easily mess up if not done right. Comments...


~Blend

Frame control is basically to project your own state. Thus, if your state is more eccentric then the other person's state is your frame will win and suck the other person in. That's for instance why other people can get you horny, even if you didn't think about it.

- Exerio

Im talking more about when he talks about if a girl knows your reputation or can see you're a bit of a player, and says she wont get with you because of this, actually, he doesnt advise to say youre not, he says to agree with it, so I guess thats where qualifying would have happened. Fuck, Im sure there was something he was saying somewhere which sounded like it could be classed as qualifying.

I think its just where his methods differ from typical PU and could lean towards things most PU advice strongly against.

But I really like his stuff, especially physical frame control. I'mma be trying some of this stuff out very soon.

~Blend