I need tips on building comfort and trust with a girl.

OK, here is some steps that will help you to build comfort and trust when you meet a girl in a bar, heres what i did last time after i isolated her:

1. I did the cube and told her to close her eyes and holded her hand while i did it ( cheap kino )
2. I told her a funny story ( Great way to break the intense SPAM and get her relaxed+ its DHV )
3. I made the masturbation test and told her that it was important that she holds my hand while i do the test ( again some kino )
4. After the test and laughing i said " wow, your arms feel pretty tense, came here to sit on my lap so i can give you a backrub " ( constant kino )
5. Game over for her

With these little cheap kino tricks she wont get scared when you try to touch her or when you want kiss in the end, enjoy!

[ Johnny B ]

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When you lose, don't lose the lesson. ~Author Unknown
Fear has a large shadow, but he himself is small. ~Ruth Gendler

One routine designed for comfort specifically and awesome rapport ; if you need more specific comfort work pm me

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Difficulties are things that show a person what they are.” Epictetus

Here is a video from mystery to you problem. He also highlights the KINO!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J_vIjxto ... re=related

[ Johnny B ]

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When you lose, don't lose the lesson. ~Author Unknown
Fear has a large shadow, but he himself is small. ~Ruth Gendler

Kino is huge. If body-language is like 90+% of all communication, then it's obvious kino can make up for a lot of mishaps with your verbal game.

Some things I do:

-I have a go-to C/F-major attraction building line that I use 99% of the time within the first 90 seconds. It always involves me giving them a playful nudge (or something similar).

-Early on, whenever I have something funny or cool to say, I'll grab their head right over the ears and pull them in close to me, as I say it (or even whisper it) right in their ear (this is MONEY)

-There's always more kino mixed in during normal talk too. Hands touching, playful hugs, me grabbing and pulling them in and throwing them away, etc.

I also have a goldmine routine of value-demonstrating, emotional connection-building that I use that is basically only for colleges (I'm a Senior right now).

My attraction game is on point (with my frame, plethora of C/F lines and comebacks and look). I can get attraction IOI's within a couple minutes. But my SP was always how to go from there to value and connection to closing. This has done it for me.

After I get attraction, I'll reward her and ask her a real question:

"So, what's your major?"

(Her response)

"So, what do you want to do with that?"

(Her response)

"But what do you really want to do..."

Her: What do you mean?

"All right fine, I'll show you...this is really cool. (at this point, if we're standing I'll grab her hand and pull her to a place to sit or if it's still in a group, this is where I can isolate)

Then, once we're sitting, I'll do Style's EV. I do a really simple version because a lot of these college chicks aren't THAT smart. I'll be sure to repeat her word (answer to #3) and anchor it to us and our connection.

After I start off so C/F, and then demonstrate this deeper, interesting value and bridge this really cool connection with her, it's so cool, you can actually see her face change and the way she looks at you. You just went from another guy who shes attracted to, to this guy who is different and more interesting than any other guy she's ever met.

At that point, it's been only 10-15 minutes, and it's on. The next step in my game is to figure out and optimize how to hold my frame as I go from this to kiss-close to f-close.

But if you're in college, USE THAT. And then report back, I wanna hear how well it worked for you.