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magnum45
PostPosted: Sun Sep 27, 2009 9:00 am 
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I am so ashamed to come here for advice.

It hurts my soul to know that I need a support group that is just designed to pick up girls as my sole source of comfort for me. I can't believe it. I am so depressed. I wish I could figure out my sorrows on my own.

This french girl doesn't like me. I know it is not me. Because I am amazing and I have the world to offer her. I honestly think it is the fact that I just want to treat her like a sex object. I think this SPAM is the reason why I can't be with her.

She feels for me and laughs but she knows that I just want to bang her and she doesn't feel safe around me.

How do I make her safe?

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Jav
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give her a hug.
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stop just wanting to bang her....


take her out and relive some childhood experiences. be a kid with her for a few hours. arcade, mini golf, inflatable bounce house (if you can find one).

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I think it was

"Safety + trust = rapport"

(Am I wrong?)


Did you build enough of it? maybe you should re-do it?
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comfort+trust=rapport
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seriously man
get therapy
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seriously man
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Well said!

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I am so ashamed to come here for advice.

It hurts my soul to know that I need a support group that is just designed to pick up girls as my sole source of comfort for me. I can't believe it. I am so depressed. I wish I could figure out my sorrows on my own.

This french girl doesn't like me. I know it is not me. Because I am amazing and I have the world to offer her. I honestly think it is the fact that I just want to treat her like a sex object. I think this SPAM is the reason why I can't be with her.

She feels for me and laughs but she knows that I just want to bang her and she doesn't feel safe around me.

How do I make her safe?

--magnum45
Jerk it before you go out to see her.
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