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Been with this girl for a few months but weve been talking for a long time. The chemistry is amazing, I've never met anyone like this. Everythings perfect. My problems is that I got her with pua, and now when I do pua type of stuff she gets sensative and offended easy. Sometimes cocky funny starts fights, its like the things she used to laugh at, now makes her mad or insecure. She is kind of an insecure girl, so its understandable. Also if I kind of back away and don't call her or text her all the time, she gets mad about it, and goes on about how different it used to be... the funny thing is I used to not call her or text her really at all because I would play hard to get. She loves it when we get cute and talk about stuff like why we like each other and stuff like that.
Most guys at this point would say "I have her now I can be soft" but we all know the things that get the girl are the things that keep the girl.
My question is about finding a balance between the two how do I make sure she'll never think I'm too nice and predectable, while still telling her everything she wants to hear.
With other girls in the past I've just played it by ear and stayed cocky/funny the whole time, and been sweet when were alone.
I think this might legitimately be a girl that just wants nice all the time.... but realistically nice all the time = drifting apart.
Push pull is what most people should live by in a relationship...its what most women use unconsciously when they are mad or are not geting their way so give them a taste of their own medicine. When she is acting how you like then you be sweet and you do nice things...txt her nice things ect ect, when she is being bitchy and not acting how you would like then you pull away and dont be a dick just dont reward her with nice msg's and thing...and dont spend as much time with her.
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