Alright, now people said GFTOW (go fuck ten other women) about my problem with getting over a girl. Let me tell you, it has been field tested and it did not work! I fucked 10 other women in a month and I still can't stop thinking about this one. I am hung over now after a night on the town and screwing a new girl that made the number 10. Seriously, I have never gotten so much ONS within the span of one month but it didn't help, I think I need to go see a shrink.

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I guess the GFTOW theory had an assumption built in that it would take you longer than 1 month to complete it lol (kudos tho). Just give it time, bro. Or call her up, tell her how you feel without looking like a complete AFC.

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Damn! Ten in a month? I assume that they were all physically attractive. That advice was probably given to guys with few options that need to feel like there are other fish in the sea that find him desirable. You obviously have no problem with that. You need to feel that it's possible for you to find a girl that you connect with and find highly desirable. So keep looking. She's out there.

It sucks.

But fortunately for you women are like clones, you will see exactly the same one or very similar sometime soon. Not just once or twice, but about 100 times... with better or the same mannerisms.

And I'm not kidding.

We are evidently all clones, me included.

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Hahah Impact - that's funny that you have a Blade Runner android as your avatar when you made that post.

Athar, I think in your case you need to take the time to RGTKTOW - really get to know 10 other women.

You're probably thinking about how well you both got along, what you missed out on, etc. Sure you will never forget her, but when you let yourself get really into another girl and give her a chance and make an effort to have a great time with her, and your head is more filled with all the fun things you can do together, the past ones don't matter so much.

Let it be said I have not gone out this much in one month either while staying in my home country. I've hit the town 15 times in 30 days and spent half my payroll on beer. The nights I have not gone out I have been sitting like an obsessed student studying pickup.
I think that might be a better advice even though I am still a bit horrible when it comes to actually getting to know them.
You assume wrong, of course they were not all physically attractive
One was downright fat and ugly which I discovered the next morning
Five of them were just average, one of which actually loaded me with booze so I would sleep with her
Four I would consider pretty, even in the sunlight.
Fool's mate all the way, I remember five names and I number closed three of them.
How do I call her up and tell her how I feel without looking like a complete AFC?
I think we need a routine for this.

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Well, I think you just admitted your major sticking point to yourself!

Yes, that is true.
Yet I feel a bigger sticking point of mine is getting over a oneitis.

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Bro, I know what you are going through......... I'm in the exact situation, except I haven't quite fucked ten chicks. It doesn't help when the oneitis is telling you she "cares about you".

My advice, let it go. Find someone else and be happy..... I know its hard, but you have to move on.

"You cannot love anyone else until you love yourself"

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It does work assuming the girls your sleeping with are quality girls. If your sticking your dick in anything that squirms of course its not going to help you. The idea of GFTOW is that it'll show you that your ex isn't so special and just another girl.

By your follow up post it sounds like those girls you fucked were low quality and some downright hidious. Think of it this way what if you woulda done the reverse and fucked ten 10's? You think you'd be writing this post? I think not.

Yes, GFTOW should read GFTO HB10s. Find ten high quality girls, try to get to know them and sleep with them too. See how you feel afterward.

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I can understand the quality argument. Indeed I can. Yet, lookwise; one of them were a 10, two were 9's and one were an 8. Yet, none matched up to my oneitis which I would rate as a 9. By the way, screwed number 11 yesterday, she was a 8. Today went bad, only collected numbers, is why I am sitting here in front of my computer and eating kebab instead of fucking right now.

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