So every once in a while I seem to run into some hot girl who can't do something because she has to go to the gym, or doesn't want to eat X or... basically expresses some need to diet/exercise regardless of the fact that she looks great.

My instinctive response is to say something like "don't worry about it, you look great" but, also instinctively, whenever I say that it feels wrong.

I'm thinking I should throw a neg in these kinds of situations, but I'm completely new to negging and can't think of anything. So, let's have some ideas!

Oh you asked the best question!
There are so many great little negs you can do with this set-up.
Sometimes when I'm out with a girl at a restaraunt and she starts to order, I wait for her to finish, then look at the server and say: "She'll just have a salad, thanks."
When she says she needs to work out, say: "Good thinking, you'll need the energy to keep up with me later."
Say other things like: "I would ask how that diet's working out, but I can already see the answer to that. [look her up and down]"
All quips should be said with a smile and a light-hearted, almost cocky attitude. Whatever you do, DO NOT let her think you are in anyway serious.



Disclaimer: You will have to use some descretion/calibration, to see if this girl can take these sorts of jokes. Most girls I know get shocked and think you are pretty crazy to say something about looking bad, or weight issues to a girl. Use good judgement.

Cheers,
JONAS[/u]

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Depending on your body type, I would say

"Ouch, way to make me feel fat, maybe i'll join you and we can loose those few extra pounds together "

Then listen to the way she responds. If she responds negatively then she is probably just using it as an excuse, or is very self conscious, either way it's a bad sign.

If she takes it as a joke, which she should, then it's all good and you should just find something else to do, because she probably won't change her dieting/exercising habits to go eat a burger.

Of course nothing is exact, but good luck with it nonetheless man.

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I would highly advise NOT negging with such things. Some[most] girls are EXTREMELY self consious when it comes to this. I've known an extremely hot girl who was suicidal over that shit, and I know a lot more who are similar or depressed about it. I think the best thing to do would be to make a joke about their strength, or say some shit about them getting muscly.

Only neg them about that shit if you...

a) are a complete cunt
b) can live with fucking up a girls feelings/emotions/mental state unecessarily like that.

Thats in my experience. I try to stay away from saying "noo you look fine"...
1) because they wont believe you
2) even if they do believe you, it doesnt matter.
3) (PU perspective) its being too into her.


~Blend

Exactly, which is why I'm looking for a neg...

"God, is image all that matters to you!?"

May as well ask for feedback on this. Again would be said in a cheeky manner but COULD be in the right direction...

This mainly depends on how well you know her, and whether she can take the negs or not. Like Liquid Blend said, you have to be very careful with negs in situations like this, and in all situations really. Overuse of negs is easy to mistake, and makes you seem arrogant instead of care-free. The point of negs is to make her lower her shield per se, and seem like you aren't interested in her the way most other guys are. This is why negging varies based on the hotness of the girl, for example you would neg an HB9 more than an HB6. It all depends on what they are used to.

Anyway, getting back to the point here, if you neg her, be sure to do it very jokingly and light heartedly, make her laugh, and if she doesn't laugh the first time, don't neg about that again. Move onto another topic.

Don't give her the attention she wants. If she looks fine, and you know that, then SHE probably knows that too. She wants you to say "No, you look fine" or "You have such an amazing body how can you think that." A PUA is not that easy. Don't give her what she wants right away. If she says "I am so fat, I need to work out" then look her up and down and smile, or shake your head a bit, then move on. [If the negs don't work out].

Basically, neg if possible, and if not then be subtle. Play the game hard, not easy.

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Neg : I guess i was rite about you , you're all looks im dissapointed and here i taught you were different

Get up and walk away ; If shes different or if she likes you and takes the neg hard she should chase

PS. Alpha quality : Willingness to walk away
One more thing , dont be afraid to lose whatt you never had.

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The neg must NOT be about HER LOOKS. If you neg, it must be related, but must NOT be directly about her looks. Unless you hate her, or you know she is actually very confident in her looks.

Else its just not right. Seriously, it would be like a chick mocking your dick if it was in fact nothing special. It could fuck you up a bit.

Trust me, fuck up negging a chick depressed about her looks, and its possibly one of the worse ever things you could say to a girl. Trust.

Make the neg not about her looks.[in this situation]

~Blend.