hey!
im an 18 year old, funny, nice guy, that has alot of girl-FRIENDS... im like neil strauss pre-PUA :S
i talk alot when im with my friends, but if there's someone new in the group i tone it done pretty much, cus im scared of not being accepted by people i meet. I often say that it takes 5 years (!) to get to know me and accept me for who i am. cus i dont have any friends that im comfortable talking to that i've known shorter than 5 years. not even some of my good friends am i comfortable with, i would say i have maybe 5 friends that i can easily talk to...

im a virgin, but i've done everything else.. i had a chance to f-close a girl last winter, but i got nervous and had to much to think about (her underwear didnt match, crappy music was playing, she kinda smelled, she had a cast on her foot, i didnt get the condom on.. ) so we just got naked, but i couldnt perform....

anyway.. i need help getting more social and comfortable with new people, and i need to build up my confidence.. hope this will work!

peace

"Her underwear didn't match"...?!
Dude that has to be one of the lamest excuses I've ever heard.

yea i know! but it was just one of the things that went through my head...

"she kinda smelled"?

Ok, then, we forgive you.

1) work on your Inner Game and 2) higher those standards!

kinda smelled? like crotch or her deodorant came off? cause pits i think are allowed to have a slight smell. sometimes you can't control your deodorant coming off