so this girl i've been talking to on msn came over tonight (im 18, she's 15), and we watched a movie and chilled.. i knew from before that she liked me and was attracted to me, so i was sure i was gonna get to make out some (she has never kissed a guy, but her friend said that she really liked me so..). we had an ok time but i know i messed up, im not that good in social situations and i can never come up with stuff to talk about.
we talked about regular stuff like school, basketball (we both play). it was pretty meaningless conversation cus i cant remember anything we said..

it got very quiet during the movie, but it didnt feel like it got really awkward. we had some kino sitting close and hands touching a little. nothing much.. she stayed for about an hour after the movie was over and we talked a little more. it was pretty serious conversation, we didnt laugh very much or joke around.

once u get to know me and i get to know u, i get much more comfortable cus i know im accepted and i can joke around and be myself, but we had never talked before so i was really stiff, or it felt that way at least.. i had hoped for some making out but im kinda romantic deep inside and i felt that her first kiss shouldnt be something i get her to do, it should be something she wants to do all along and it should be in a better situation than in my couch during a mediocre date..

im gonna post a short description of myself in the "introduce yourself" forum so yall can gett to know me better.. but for know i just want u to point out all the things i shoulda done differently, cus i know there's ALOT to be done!

peace

First of all, congratulations, you've took the first step to getting closer to the girl. Yeah thee are a few things that you coud have tried or changed but everyone has to start somewhere and i think you done a decent job.
Watching a movie together, just the two of you is kind of an intimate thing and means you can skip a few sections about trying to get her attention and seducing her. In your situation you were given a licence to do some kino. Maybe a hand on her leg (not in a suggestive way!) just resting, arm around her shoulder, or go for the lady killer by lying down and resting your head on her lap.
Remember, if she came over to your house, then she obviously interested in you and probably expected you to make some sort of move. Next time, take the opportunity by both hands and go for it. If you dont, every day your risking some other guy doing it first.

-crowbar