To make a long story short. I meet this 26 year old HB on line. We decide to meet up but she tells me she's a virgin, prior to our meeting. I reply that it's cool as long as she's fun and i don't sleep with women on the first date.
Eventually, we meet up and go out dancing. Everything that night was right on. I was talking to bunch of peaople, meeting new girls right in front of her..just being friendly etc.
Eventually things turned sexual and we started havy make out session right there in the club. I suggested we would bounce to my place but initially she didn't wanna go. She kept telling me that she would feel like a slut etc..you know the shpiel. SO i gamed her a little more, touchy feely stuff until we left the club. got some wine and bounced to her place. We then talked for a while until it led to oral sex. No intercourse, I tried several times and techniques but i said i would respect her wish. She said that she had a long time boyfriend that went back to her ex and that's when she decided to stay a virgin...(if that's even true..who knows). I got a feeling that she's very independent and maybe was hurt before...but who knows.
So i leave her place in the morning and 5 min later she sends me a text that she misses me and loves the smell of me on her body.
Next day I text her:
Me: DO you miss me yet?
HB: Of course, I miss you very much
Me: I miss me too. I hope i didn't get you sick (I had a cold when we met)
Hb: No, i'm feeling ok for now. I just think about you
I left it at that
Next day:
Me: Hey HB, you popped into my head so hi, now stay out of there..it's kinda private
Hb: First of all, i think i will be sick afterall

, second, Of course i wanna know what's inside your head, give it up
Me: I didn't mean to get you sick, you're cute..I just had to find out what type of kisser you are. An No!, my head is my own privacy...it may be to graphic for you..you may not be able to handle it.
Hb: ahhhh, ok, i see. Oh well, if you put it that way
Me: You give up way to easy..you come across as strong, independent woman, but I can tell that underneath all that you're kind of sky.
Hb: Dear, what are you trying to give me a psychological reading?. I knew you would react this way after i didn't want to find out more. You like being asked, don't you. Why the analysis? Do you think i don't know myself?. If you want to play we can play

Me: Wow!!!, you're feisty!..I can already tell your boyfriend didn't spank you enought.
Hb:
Guys, please help!, i have no idea what is going on. I feel like she's gaming me. Is it because she's an older girl? or do you think she's been hurt and doesn't want any bullshit?
thanks