Hey! So i've been together with this girl (HB8.5)for 2 months now we had fun time together, we really like eachother and stuff but the thing is today she said to me, that there are days where she's totaly happy for our realtionship and badly wants me, but there are also days where she wants to be single... She said she hasn't have any LTR be4 and she doesnt know if she wants to be single or not but she still loves me... So now that u roughly know what i mean, i was wondering what should i do in order to keep this relationship fresh/exciting? I was never a pussy so i never chased her or anything... Should i spent more time with her or maybe ''punish'' her a bit with being busy so she'll miss me? Is there anything else i can do?

Ty for your help, Unefined ~

Go for an open relationship.

Yeah - some girls know they have options and don't want to commit yet. They are more cool with things if they know they don't have to give that up.

Horrible idea. dont listen to this guy

If a girl says she wants to be single that is somthing you want to keep an eye on...a girl like this might be more liley to cheat and has prob thought of it...that being said atleast she was honest with you and told you how she really feels so you cant get mad at her for that. I would say that this girl might not be the girl for you to be honest because you seem very committed and she seems very un sure and imature about the whole thing.

Im not sure how much you like this girl? but mabey it is time to end the relationship and you could let her know you like her but if she is not on the same level as you then it wont work. What will happen 6 months from now when you are in love, head over heals for this girl and she cheats on you or leaves you because she wants to be free???? it will break your heart bro Iv seen it a million times.

Thats just my two cents...I dont know the kind of relationship you two have because I dont know you but I would say you are better off with another women.

She said she hasn't have any LTR be4 and she doesnt know if she wants to be single or not but she still loves me...

My response would have been 'well, we should probably take a break then, let things cool off and see what happens.'

Now she knows you don't need her to feel happy or complete (a major mind f*ck for her), your value goes through the roof, and you get to see her reaction (which will communicate what she REALLY wants).

There are many ways to keep a relationship fresh and new. You may want to search the site for suggestions.

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