i have bin seeing this girl for over a week at college not kissed her yet, but thats becouse she broke up with her ex 4 days ago and he is a maniac who is going to get done for robbery or go on the run!

we have spoke about us and she said becouse of her reputation of being a slag she wants to take it slow, i said thats cool and i have definate attraction and some good comfort, but i had my arm round her when we met with afew of her m8s and she took it off! so i punished her and left i wasnt going to hang around.

then later last nyt she txt sayin

(HB) i was a bit of a bitch earlier, who i was with was reli judgemental, i shudnt have gone over tbh x

(me) look i dont understand your situation and im not guna say much on a txt rather do it in person x

(HB) fair, but tbh, i dont understand either. dont wana get involved, thats cool x

(me) look im not guna say i like you on a txt, im under impression your m8s still fink ur wid him and im not that guy x

(HB) dont make a disision to quick, wouldnt want you to regret it. but tbh the people you met earlier wer dicks, but anyway, talk when i next see you x

so my question is this, what do i do about the exbf and can i still get her? advice extremly welcome

thanks

fiddler

Ignore the exbf, he is an ex for a reason. Its her problem, not yours. Act the way you want to, dont let her treat u in a way that you dont like, respect her but respect urself more. I believe that u've made ur point clear, its her turn to act. In my opinion there's nothing to worry about, the ex aint a problem at all. The problem here is that she cares way too much about other's opinion, if you can deal with that -good, just dont make a fool out of urself. 'They either like you, or they hide you'.
Cheers
Jez

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