Gentleman,

So of course I'm gaming a girl on a dating site. She is a 9-10 from her pics. I have used this a bit and get replies. It's not the best game but working so far. How should I respond to it this time?

Me: I would start with a proposal but I have found that appearences & personalities don't always match. Maybe some friendly conversation might be best! What do you think?

Fish food (signed)

Her: ha. I like the "fish food" title.

I'd normally be up for chatting and maybe meeting, but i'm seeing somone right now. If that doesn't work out and you're still on here...then I look forward to learning more about you.




Looking for thoughts and insight!! (Why is her profile on a dating sight if this is true? Hmmmm...)

Oh this one is an easy one.. MOVE ON. One of two reason you would get that response..

1) She is dating someone at which point why go after this girl with such little invested. Find another 9 or 10.

2) She doesn't like you and is being nice. Now if this was in your face sarging I would suggest you change her mind, but with it being only you are limited to text which makes it harder and again not worth the effort.

Agreed!!! But I do like to be flirtatious cause being a 9-10 I'm sure she has recieved TONS of emails. Why even reply? Trust me, I have gotten plenty of no-replys.

I thought a quick little playful comment might be nice. Who knows what could happen. Many sales people call her actions a smoke screen. Some PUA may call it a "shit test"

Just learning boys!!! Trust me I wasn't going to waste time on this.

1/ Don't waste much time on her.
2/ You just got IOI. If she wasn't dating, she'd be taking it one step further with you.

Know that this is the standard "I have a boyfriend" response, with the IOI-bonus "but catch me later". So what do we reply to that standard response?

"You have a bf? Good for you." She already pointed out she'd like to get to know you better (yeah yeah, after the BF thingie) - pick up on that. : )