i just started a long distance relationship(we didn't say that we are toghether but we talk to the phone often like a real couple)....we live far so we can see very rearely like once a month.
i don't know much about her but she don't call me often and she prefer that i call her
i don't know how many times to call her.
every day is too much because of the type of the relationship.
it's two days that i didn't call her and i think i'll call her tomorrow.
what do you guys think....am i doing right?
what are your tips?

Personally, I say make it feel natural. I think that's the best advice that I can give.

If you think that once a day is too much, then it probably is, because calling once a day won't feel natural to you.

the problem is that i like have this relationship but i don't want that became too serious....for serious i mean not too much obbligations......like a proper relationship.....i want soething more easy.
the other problem is that she doesn't call often that's why i stayed the past two days without calling her........if i always call and she never i'll show her weackness and this isn't good.
the other night she didn't want me to hug her because she said she was too tired.i really wanted to insist and hug her but instead of that i said "ok if you feel tired now....goodnight" after a while she came and hugged me because she tought i was angry.
so i think wait some days before to call is good.....so i won't show that i'm needy
what do you think?

Dude, if she won't even give you a hug - I'm pretty sure you have more important things to work on than how often you should call her.

IMHO

I'm gonna go ahead and agree with Tarzan on this one. If you actually were in a "relationship" of some sort, she would hug you and not use pathetic excuses like "I'm tired".

I mean come on. Even regular friends hug. I sometimes even hug my male friends.

i think you guys misunderstood
of course she hug me and she also like to kiss me.
but you should know that sometimes girls make you on a test they challenge you in many ways for example they try to lead you and if you let them lead they will say buy
another test can be the one that i mentioned.
we kissed and hugged many times during the day but just before to sleep she didn't want to turn her body toward me when we were on the bed and she said she were ok like that.
instead to insist i said "ok goodnight" and i pass the test in fact after a while she came and tryied to hug me many times

Okay, I understand now. I apologize for the misunderstanding.

When you call a girl three times on a row without her calling even once, than feel free to assume that you are not doing something correctly.

I have a question for you:

How many times did you call her the last two weeks and how many times did she call you? These figure only, will be enough for most of us to know what's going on.

If you think this will work out between you and her sometimes and in some kind of way, but you are not sure that it indeed will happen, than get some other things going on for you (date same other women) in the meanwhile. Than check things out to see where you stand with this particular girl.

i used to call her every two or three days and she always ansewer but she rearely call me back so this week i was tired of her behaviour and so i didn't call her.....after 6 days she called me.
girls are strange....more you give and less they give you......less you give them and more they give to you