So I met this girl at a party on Saturday (Never hooked up etc...) but just escalated some kino with some small touches and negs. Got her number and left.

Texted her monday...continued texting...here's what's going on.

I initiated the text yesterday with:

Me: What's my favorite little brat up to tonight?

Her: hahaha not nice Sori. I'm working. What are you up to?

Me: It's so true though. Little, CHECK...Brat, CHECK...And youre my favorite Rachel. But tonight, I'm going to be going to the bar. Youre welcome to join.

Her (later that night); you're favorite rachel??!! Oh my god its an honor hahaha who was my competition for the title? And btw I'm at the bar. Youre not.

Me: Yes, my favorite. I had a little problem, I couldnt find my kitten...but I found it. Hows the bar lookin?

Then she topped responding for the night at which point, I just txt'd her 3 times telling her I was coming down, where was she and that Im at the bar.

Next day

Her: do you really have a kitten???!!!!????!! And I was at bullrun but went home.

Me: Geez, you mustve driven your parents crazy....youre so demanding with all those '???!!!!!???!!!!' And yea, I do have a small, poofy kitten named DJ.

Her: I don't believe you. I need to see it.

Me: yea, you will. Im busy today but tomorrow I should have some time. I gtg now, but Ill shoot you a txt either tonight or tomorrow letting ya know what's goin on.

Thoughts? She want me?[/code]

You are not going to get her by asking us what to do. You are online going to get her if you go with your gut instinct. If it says text her then text her. If is says don't then dont. Don't fucking listen to these stupid rules dude. Just do what you feel is right. Don't worry about these rules. They are put in place by people who think that sex is the meaning of life.

Sex is not the meaning of life. You will be O.K. if you don't have sex. You will survive. In fact you will be stronger if you don't need sex to feel good about who you are. You need to work on yourself. You need to become a stronger person. You will create you own rules that work for you. Follow your gut and your brains. You know the right choices. Choose them and learn to grow. Do not listen to these PUA rules.

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Walk Hard

Seriously Magnum, that is a lie.

And over to the question: You are over-analyzing. Progress and she will tell you when to stop.

- Exerio

What is a lie????? The fact that you can get a girl if you trust you gut? Or the fact that PUA'a are nothing but routins to get a girl to sleep with you?

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Walk Hard

Sori, its pretty obvious that the girl is interested in you. Its good that you’re keeping yourself busy and you’re not non stop available. With her texting you ‘I don't believe you. I need to see it.’ she has open the perfect window for you. Take the kitten and her out for a walk (well I am not real sure that kittens are supposed to be taken out for a walk but …), girls love little things especially things that are alive This little fela of yours is gonna show her on a basic level that you are caring and sweet and blah blah (you know how it goes), and thats never a bad thing, its anyhow part of being an alfa, right?

Magnum45, may I ask why are you here when you are so much against all that ? And obviously you have no idea what PUA is about, since you think that its only rules that can get you sex…

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“A man is but the product of his thoughts what he thinks, he becomes.”

She just gave you a major IOI ; all you have to do now is not fuck up
if you get her make sure you reward you're kitten with some top of the line food

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Difficulties are things that show a person what they are.” Epictetus

I'd venture to guess that most of the people who come here, and in fact most people who run boot camps, were once "afraid" of girls. So they studied the game, became as good as possible, and came up with rules, ideas, guides, etc, to help people in the same situation. 90% of these people just want good girlfriends.

Guys, Im going to update you all

I txt'd her today

Me: you can comeby at 10. bring popcorn and a lighter. My place.

Her: uhhh whatt is the lighter for. And the popcorn. Hahahaha

Me: im watching this hilarious movie tonight and smoking hookah after...i need my popcorn and lighter.

Her: hahahaha what movie is it?

Me: Youre just full of questions, arent you? lol its cute kinda. listen, i cant talk long i have to head out soon but im going to be watchin a funny ass movie, youre welcome to join me.

And then she never responded...thoughts? I was thinking of just trying a compliance test (suppose waiting until 7pm the next day and see if she txts me)

First of all, i used to trust my gut all the time, but i was a bit paranoid and would always over-analyze shit, and pull shit like text and call someone waaaay too many times, making me look waaaay more afc that i should have. I've done better by using my gut (to tell if she likes me or not), and the pua's advice, (what to do when she does, if she doesn't).

Secondly, there are pua's that just use routines to get into girls pants, it's true. But like all things, in the wrong hands they can be used negatively. Routines aren't made to get girls to sleep with you. It's to help guys that are insecure, or a little paranoid, or whatever, to approach those women, so that they can get a chance to show themselves off, which was virtually impossible before pua's, or at least without a shitload of liquor.

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Here's to being single, seeing double, sleeping triple, and multiple orgasms.

So...back to my question?

You have her already.. Its not a PUA issue anymore. Its a matter of doing ur job as a man. Invite her over to see your cat.. watch tv/movie.. Start talking about relationships, and girls.. hold her hand or put ur arm around her ,, and if u feel a squeeze, that means she wants to hook up. Make sure your somewhere private for ur first kiss, kiss her.... as ur making out.. put ur hand on her waist.. start going lower.. then once ur inside her pants you can do anything u want..

A girl that wants to come to your house doesn't need any work done.. Its al a matter of time until you have sex with her (unless she's religious or something).. The only way you could fuck up is if you force anything. if she doesn't feel like it just be like well thats ok. show that your interested by smiling/eye contact/ kino/ facial expression..

yeah but look...I updated...you didnt read this part

Guys, Im going to update you all

I txt'd her today

Me: you can comeby at 10. bring popcorn and a lighter. My place.

Her: uhhh whatt is the lighter for. And the popcorn. Hahahaha

Me: im watching this hilarious movie tonight and smoking hookah after...i need my popcorn and lighter.

Her: hahahaha what movie is it?

Me: Youre just full of questions, arent you? lol its cute kinda. listen, i cant talk long i have to head out soon but im going to be watchin a funny ass movie, youre welcome to join me.

And then she never responded...thoughts? I was thinking of just trying a compliance test (suppose waiting until 7pm the next day and see if she txts me)

Dude wtf wtf wtf
She said she said she wants to come to your house and see ur cat!! Wtf ! of course she is attractdd to you, like DUH! Even the most social akward AFC can figure that one out.....

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yeah, but you're not following...READ MY UPDATE...she didnt end up coming or reply to my last txt (yesterday). Here in lies the problem.

just freeze her out bro. You gave her a chance, and she messed it up. Her loss.

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Here's to being single, seeing double, sleeping triple, and multiple orgasms.