So this weekend there is going to a huge party at a friend of mines house. Its a pajama party. You come in what you would wear to bed, and then switch with a lady friend. Should be lots of fun. The house that i am going to is home to 3 members of the Mens Ultimate Frisbee team. This is a very hippyish type scene. There are occasionally the rich snotty types, but usually more hippy type girls. This isn't to say they all dont shower, and brush their teeth, but they are not the spoiled little trust fund brats. I live in Northern AZ. We go hiking, not shopping.

The best part about the Mens club team, is that there is a woman's team. The Gines. This is going to be a very target rich party, complete with dance floor, and rooms for isolation. I was wondering if you fine gentlemen have any advice on closing. I can open fairly consistently. This is never that hard in the this type of setting for me. My sets seam to fizzle out sometimes though. I was wondering how to correct this. I also seem to not build enough attraction. Tips that could be used in the setting i have described would be killer.

Thanks guys!
RAD

Inviting to girls to parties is easy yet tricky. If you just met them, don't use ur party as an opener (i'm sure you already know this as you posted this in the mid game section). You want to make your invitation seem like a privelage. Its your party, its exculsive. Your having fun either way, whether they come or not.

So chill with them, talk, do ur routines, w/e. After the introduction, comfort building stage, talk about the party your having, and how you can't wait to be there. Even more importantly, girls love guys that run things. This can help you build attraction. Make it seem like your in charge of getting the drinks/music/, and ask them opinions about what would make a good party. ."Should I serve punch, or get an extra keg." Or what music should be played, "hip hop/house or both."Mke it seem like you came up with the pajama party idea and thats the greatest idea ever. Lots of opportunities to start good convos. Keep them talking.. reply "thats a good idea. Well you guys seem alright, come to my party saturday, i think you'll like it." Get numbers..

Something along that line.

Umm, I was looking for more material on the comfort building stage while im AT the party. Its tomorrow night. I am not the one throwing the party, but i was given the invite from a buddy of mine. Making it seem like im the one in charge seems a little too TRY-HARD. The idea that it is a privilege for her is a good idea though. Like i said this party will be target rich so any lines you have, or new techniques would be appreciated.

Thanks for the feedback.

Much more is welcome!

RAD