Let me preface this with me saying.. this is not one it is. I am currently talking to other girls, but this one in particular has me confused.


okay so its been probably a year now? maybe 2 since we have been cool. First year we didnt talk much we would just flirt a little when ever we got around eachother calling eachother names blah blah.

Second year i got her number (lol i know right?) and we would text alot but for whatever reason i never built up the balls to ask her out.

After a while i felt like i saw the attraction essentially leave and i was cool with it.. i had it set in my mind that we would basically just be friends. (its always good to have a few good girl friends especially if they are not ducks)

but then overtime i began to notice her trying to spend more time with me... almost forcing the issue.. getting really mad whenever i decided not to go with her out to eat or do whatever.

I remember how after basketball games when a group of us would go out to eat she would always sit next to me. But at the time that was about as close to a date that we would come. I never really asked her to do anything and showed zero interest.

Durring the summer she continued to ask me to do things which i declined and then all of a sudden i find out that she had started talking to a good friend of mine..

I tried to act like wahtever but for the first time i became jealous..

this is where it got weird.

One time when her, her friend and, me and my good friend all hung out, she ignored him completly and talked with me the whole time. She held eye contact for long periods of time giving a what seemed liek puppy dog look and was constantly smiling and laughing. (these seem like pretty strong ioi's ) She was also almost bragging about the thigns that i had been doing to the rest of the group because we had already talked about them in the past.

It got tot he point that when we left, my freind said man maybe you should just go for her.. i think she likes you.
My response was na man i think she is just shy and to nervous to taLk to you so you just have to grow some balls and talk to her.

I told him this because earlier when me and her were talking she basically said that she did like him but it wasnt her job to initiate these sort of things.

so here i am still jelous but thinking bros over "hos" so am trying to help my friend out even though i am starting to reaalllly get attracted to this girl.

I find out that my friend has been to hang out with her and her friend btu this time i wasnt invited (made me kidn of pissed..) and i find out that they have done this a bunch of times. Now im mad not because he is with her (i dont think at least) but more so because we do everythign together and now he is basically just leaving me out of shit to hang out with this girl and HER friend..

So i have basically come resolved to okay dude she is just not into you move on. and so ihave but then i see her again and once again she shows me all of these ios its like an ioi blast.

Some examples are: we created a game where we have to touch eachother in someway everytime we see eachtoher....
another is, when i started taklign to her friend more then her she got mad at me and said i would understand why you would talk to her.. she is better then me anyway....

And another is when i told her that i was talking to some other girls she ocne again acted jelous and began asking me alot about them. and how she thot she couldnt be like them...

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end of story

My question is are these iois? or just something else? and if so is there any merit in trying to pursue her. She is not the hoeish type.. i almost think tho that she has begun tlaking to my friend to grab my attention..

what do you think?

went through the same thing chompsky honk going through it now.
all you can do is ether k close or blow it.