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| evobeatsti | PostPosted: Thu Sep 24, 2009 7:55 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Aug 25, 2009 12:12 am Posts: 5 | | ok, so this girl, im pretty sure shes really into me, im pretty sure she has a bf, we have cinema class together and she was like laying on me during the movie, but then i went to a bar and saw her tonight, and i totally froze, i had nothing to say, and then she went off and flirted with other guys, i guess this comfort stage is my sticking points, any tips on how to start up good convos? also do i still have a chance with her?
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| magnum45 | PostPosted: Thu Sep 24, 2009 8:25 am | |
Joined: Sun Feb 17, 2008 10:40 am Posts: 832 | | Your problem has nothing to do with the fact that you froze. Your problem is that you don't believe in yourself. If we tell you what to do and what to say you will eventually become dependent on us. We are not your parents.
You need to be secure in your imperfections. You need to accept that fact that 99% of the women you meet won’t have sex with you, and they will reject you.
You need to feel comfort in the fact that you don't need another person to feel good about whom you are.
YOU need friends to support you and feel good about who you are. You need to respect yourself, and love yourself. You need to focus on yourself right now. You HAVE to focus on yourself first. The girl will fit into your life after you have figured out who you are.
Read The Success Principles.
-magnum _________________ Walk Hard
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